Plate doesn't like how I text her.

let_terror_reign · 2015-12-22T01:08:31+00:00

If you want to be effusive, do it on your terms, not on hers. If she doesn't like the way you want to be with her, tough.
She's just a plate.

blacwidonsfw · 2015-12-22T01:23:03+00:00

ignore what she says. is she doing what you want? then keep texting her the same way. Just say, 'ok ill try to text better' then dont change your actions at all. She wont notice and if she does she wont stop seeing you because of it it will make more attracted she just doesnt know what she actually wants.

vox_veritas · 2015-12-22T01:26:32+00:00

Did I miss the part where you go from being short and emotionless through text to being their best friend?

This is you seeking validation.

throw_em_all · 2015-12-22T17:37:20+00:00

You don't owe her any explanations, for all she knows you could be text phobic or some shit.

Kalikoenig · 2015-12-24T05:56:53+00:00

She's testing to see if you'll change how you act and change who you are so easily.

If you think, "oh gee golly this girl wants me to text more. I should definitely text more"... she'll dry up. Eventually she'll get turned off you're texting her for pointless shit and she'll stop replying to your texts. You'll then get angry and think, "but why did she tell me she wants me to text more if she's just going to take 4 hours to reply?? why oh why?"

She likes you already for doing whatever it is you're doing. Don't change that. Don't fix something that isn't broken.

Rokig · 2015-12-21T22:42:36+00:00

For text, I generally just do logistics. Any conversations end up taking too long, you're a man, you have more important shit to do, in Essence she is bothering you because you're busy.

Woman like to feel, not necessarily good or bad, they just want to feel. She's shit testing you here to make you comply and do what she wants.

Again, watch what she does, not says. If she didn't want to text you, she wouldn't. Clearly, you keep giving her tingles so keep at it. She may drop soon, but if she's just a plate then nbd

hungrywolf92 · 2015-12-22T19:09:32+00:00

This isn't a black and white issue.

Text her and speak to her when you have something to actually talk about, or if you want to make plans or get to know her or share something with her.

You don't need to text her 24/7 meaninglessly, but you also don't need to act like you don't have a personality or anything to say.

If she is going to like you, let her like you for who you are. The only thing you can change and improve on is who you are, not how you "present" yourself to her. That's why there's no use in over thinking how and when you text her.

Title	Plate doesn't like how I text her.
Author	Zidroc
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	December 21, 2015 10:35 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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