I've never met someone that learned game, the truth about female nature and social dynamics that didn't have a phase of bitterness. I don't think that's a healthy place to live but it's completely understandable given that what we've been told since birth about dating and women is essentially a load of fantasy Disney movie bullshit.

Obviously the next stage of growth is acceptance however I think remaining a little bit.jaded is actually helpful. Why? Because your hard edges make you more attractive at times. Your scrutiny of women makes them work for your attention. Your overall indifference and outcome independence is crucial to success..unless you are a "natural" it's hard to come by these things without a little bit of a trial by fire period creating a new and stronger version of yourself. Thoughts?

To be clear I am in no way saying this as a justification for hating women or any crap like that. I don't think that's helpful at all. But seeing things as they are, the good the bad and the ugly is essential.