Single mom is NOT looking for hook ups! It's time to settle down! Which means YOU need to ManUp™! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

CryptoKingK · 2026-06-24T12:41:00+00:00

lIf she had for example a 8, 6 and 5 year old. She would still be a red flag. But the fact she has a 2 month old, makes her a walking fire alarm.

Joaquino7997 · 2026-06-24T12:00:42+00:00

So, just to be clear...she's not looking for a hookup AND added an entire paragraph about her kids.

Seems like a very long-winded way of saying "HELP! I'm broke and need (your) money!!"

Scantraxx12 · 2026-06-24T16:56:04+00:00

As a man over 30, single moms scare the bajezzus out of me. As soon as I hear the word kid, I mentally check out. I think it’s a self defense mechanism I’ve developed.

Profitglutton · 2026-06-28T03:46:06+00:00

These women can’t be serious. Having newborns on top of other kids and still looking for a meal ticket with low enough self esteem to take that shitty deal.

Soulful_Sadist · 2026-06-28T08:40:21+00:00

Yeah, first she'll have to prove herself worthy of a good Man's time, attention, and affection (and, maybe *eventually* his resources post-marriage) before she'll have a shot.

The Man needs to become her TOP priority and divorce should FOREVER be removed from the table.

Every single woman should know that none of them automatically "deserves" anything from a Man merely for existing.

The unfortunate reality is that if a woman has a child from a failed relationship because she chose poorly and/or the guy didn't live up to his responsibility... that non-deservedness goes double.

Said woman must change her world view, develop herself into what a good Man actually wants... then just maybe things will start looking up.

All the best.

Secure_Key3386 · 2026-07-28T03:03:56+00:00

Kids are kids , but I was never ready to be stepfather. Simply put, I wanted , and have , my own kids. When young , girls run with “ funny” guys. When troubled , empty pockets and kids , then I was always welcomed boy , invited for party visits etc . But I knew , I was only a check book and cash carrier ( that time were not ATM yet). Times are different but girls are the same, proud to be taken by as many local “ celebrities “ then as single mothers hunting for the previously rejected boys, who now are perfect ATMs. It’s the rule, and never mind the country or time. To these single mothers I had and have now too- middle finger

BringBackUsenet · 2026-07-13T00:47:49+00:00

No, your children are not amazing.

This just screams "run away as fast as you can" before you wind up being babby daddy #4, complete with child support payments.

Primary_Strategy6251 · 2026-06-24T11:39:29+00:00

Damn man, you cut me showing this to me. I am such a childless loser. I wont get involved with a single mother. What does it even mean time to settle down? I wish 4000 stars would turn me into dust, so effing tired of seeing and hearing about this stuff.

Ratt14586 · 2026-06-24T21:19:48+00:00

How old are you if I may ask A two month old What changed your mind in the last 2 months to settle down.Just curious I absolutely love kids have one of my own

Title	Single mom is NOT looking for hook ups! It's time to settle down! Which means YOU need to ManUp™! \| WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Author	lurkerhasarisen
Upvotes	167
Comments	20
Date	June 24, 2026 11:24 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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