Red Pill, I have read most of the theory in the suggested reading section. My question is, where do I go from here? To give you an idea of where "here" is, this is what I'll tell you.

  • I've been consistently lifting for the past few months, minus this past week and half of last because I was on a hiking trip and it's the holidays. Using a basic program from the Weight Trainer.

-I'm in the Air Force, enlisted and looking to get out in about 7 months, at which point I will enroll in University. ( 21 Years old) ( I either want to do ROTC and become an officer, Do State Patrol work, or do something that will make me a lot of money; Minus engineering, I don't have the mind for math.) - Side question, Does career matter, and what should I aim for? Realistically, I know we all can't be Alpha CEOS.

  • I've become slightly more assertive thanks to you guys, and am less worried about speaking my mind (except at work)

However, I feel I am lacking in many areas especially personality. People tell me I have the personality of an old man, jokingly of course but I know it to be true. They say I'm so polite in conversation and well beyond my years in maturity. I don't know about you guys but that sucks. I find it hard to get along with people my age and I don't really find many of their jokes or general humor very funny at all.

This is killing me and it makes it especially hard to create attraction in the women I find attractive. I really need to find the best way to be my best self, and learn Game. At first I thought I could just lift and be more social. I can pretty much ask for any girls number and make small talk but nothing that can make her want me on the spot. However my friend gave me a book a long time ago called "The Game" by Neil Strauss that I have yet to read; I'm seriously considering it.

I was hoping that learning the theory and being more social would help, but it seems like my personality is holding me back.

What can I do to fix this? How can I be a genuinely funny, interesting guy that people want to be around?

Lastly, after the theory reading, where should I turn to next for knowledge that can help me get better?