Do you avoid touristy areas?

Back2theCouture · 2026-07-20T10:50:52+00:00

If you want a serious relationship, anyone NOT from local area is never a good prospect. It doesn’t matter how you meet them; touristy places, online, vacation, etc.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-07-20T18:26:09+00:00

For serious stuff, yes avoid this.

For fun, it could be fun but just know a lot of times they are in groups and that can be harder for them to hook up with you.

Like i live in a city where bachelorette parties frequent. And it's honestly hit or miss.

Because, if you just wanna have a fun time at a bar with a bachelorette party, that's the easy part. THey are down, open and as long as you not a creep and most of them are single they are def down to party. But they also have group mentality becuase they are in an unknown city, and they dont want to bring a random guy home or go to a random guy's place. Plus there's usually a mom of the group who stays sober to round up the girls.

Probably the closest i ever got to a threesome was with a bachelorette party. I wasnt even going to go out but my friend wanted to. We go to a bar and he eyes one girl from afar and wants to get with her badly. She's in a bachelorette party. He befiredns her and her friends and i decide to just play wingman. keep the girls happy, im not trying to get with them as i dont care. Some were cute but noen were really my type and again i just wasnt feeling it that night im mostly here for him.Im just keeping the vibes strong while he makes moves.

The bride and a few of the girls are really chill so around 11 they all leave, a few of the party girls wanna stay out so they stay out (including the friends girl). And we are there drinking, dancing, partying. Im entertaining like 3-4 girls but i can see one girl is the mom of the group. Only stayed because her sister was in that group of woman who wanted to stay out. She's not really entertaining anything im saying and not really drinking so i leave her be. But i can tell she wants to get the group home but the group is kind of ignoring her. At one point im talking to one girl, she's like the leader of the party group (call her Jane). Not sure how it got there but Jane mentions how she likes aggressive men how she like sto be dominate in bed. Then at some point mentions a husband. My friend kinda says something like "oh so how would he feel at you dancing like this with us" and she goes "as long as it's not PIV it's not cheating" and we look at each other like "damn" and i kinda feel bad for the guy. Im not someone who tries to do that so i kind of kept my distance iwth the girl. She had a friend she was gettin gvery drunk and handsy with the rest of the night and theyd kiss every couple minutes. Her friend was actually really pretty and someone i was down from the group to get with so im dancing iwth ehr most of the night and even as she's grinding on her Jane keeps coming in and kissing her while the friend (sara) grinds on me. Maybe a bit more drunk and judgement starts to get less for me where im more like "fuck it". Jane an di talk again and she says how she loves agressive men, and i say "how do you like to dominate" and Jane grabs my neck and tries to slam me to the wall giving me those "fuck me eyes". I turn her around, use one hand to grab both her arms and rub the other arm on her thigh (she was wearing a mini skirt) and go "are you really gonna make me finger you in the club?" then she went "remember PIV is not cheating" and i go "then dont get jealous later when im done fingering you and i start fucking sara and you wish it was you". So by that point it was pretty much a done deal i felt like, just making sure we still had a good time. I was able to get some kisses here and there with sara and at one point jane kisses me too (which im not super proud of since again i beleive in karma and i hate going after taken women). So if i played my cards right, it was a done deal. But then the sober mom of the group tells all the girls that the bride is pissed people are still out that late. So the girls kind of felt bad. Like my friend and his girl were basically a done deal she had already told him she was down. I was probably 70% chance that at least one of the two girls would've been down. But it's the brides weekend and they ended up leaving and thanking us for a good night.

Not upste but again moral of the story, you can have a fun night with out of towners, but there's a lot of factors that will make it harder for you to get some. Sometimes you do run into the one girl that doesnt give a fuck about getting lost in a city or waking up in a random guys house, but most of the time most girls wont risk it.

Title	Do you avoid touristy areas?
Author	newme19283
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	July 20, 2026 9:27 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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