Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?

laced1 · 2026-07-16T19:32:45+00:00

I stopped beating off years ago and been high energy every since

Padlock2232 · 2026-07-16T18:56:09+00:00

You are encountering human beings who do not have an interest in you. Move on.

zuriyal · 2026-07-16T19:17:58+00:00

Describing a completely neutral person as bitchy for minding their own business is ridiculous - they haven’t even done anything to you

Orange_Codex · 2026-07-16T19:05:18+00:00

Strangers don't have to clap at your (uninvited) presence. You're not Kim Jong-un.

Not_RZA_ · 2026-07-16T19:14:37+00:00

I don’t talk to ones that don’t seem interested?

You can tell from the first 10 seconds if she wants to talk with you

AssistTemporary8422 · 2026-07-17T04:08:26+00:00

They are doing that because they are random strangers on the street trying to get somewhere. And guys are doing that too. When they are with friends they are usually nice and warm. I suggest socializing more and meeting women more socially rather than getting mad at total stranger who are just trying to get back home.

extratrstrl · 2026-07-16T18:39:03+00:00

If she’s bitchy towards you then there’s no attraction. You need to look for Indicators of Interest every single time you think of approaching or talking with a girl.

If you have charisma/game & polarize her with good energy, she will change her attitude quick.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-16T20:03:28+00:00

I like speaking to humans, I dunno what else to say.

I enjoy going to social events, where women (and men) are and talking to people, as opposed to ignoring everyone.

When I am in bars or where ever, I like talking to people.

I dunno where the "enthusiasm" comes from, its just something I do.

rawbface · 2026-07-16T20:11:42+00:00

Sounds like ya might be building up some resentment there bud

rich_god · 2026-07-16T19:04:00+00:00

You’re not meeting people in the right environment or from the right status.

RakeChapman13 · 2026-07-16T19:25:43+00:00

I genuinely just really like women, it’s far from just being about sexual gratification for men. I love talking to them and hanging out with them, enjoying life with them. And all this makes you a much better seducer.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-16T19:36:52+00:00

You're probably in the wrong place, or aren't giving off a vibe that inspires them to show interest.

eablokker · 2026-07-16T19:14:57+00:00

By recognizing that their bitchiness is not about you, it's about their current mood caused by how life and other people have been treating them before you.

When you learn how to change their mood around, you become the antidote to that. You become her favorite thing in the world. When she lights up just for you and nobody else, that's how you know it's genuine and real. If women were faking being in a good mood all the time (such as in environments where they are paid to do so), you would never be able to tell if it was real or not.

It takes some work to create good feelings in her, but once you do, you become the anchor that triggers it automatically. The positive impression that you leave her with, that becomes her automatic response to you in the future.

If a woman is bitchy towards you after getting to know you a while, then you know its about you and how you made her feel. But before meeting you, its about something else. Whatever her initial response is to you, you have to acknowledge that you've only just met each other, and its just a default response.

wilhelmtherealm · 2026-07-16T18:51:34+00:00

This is where you're capacity to lead as a Man comes into picture.

Develop it.

You stop being bitchy and entitled first and learn to have fun.

silver54 · 2026-07-16T19:37:54+00:00

i like tits and pretty faces

that usually does the trick

PrinceDestin · 2026-07-16T19:48:42+00:00

That’s just regular people
With things they have to do, I intimidate people because I have a very mean or uncaring face but I still approach women and maybe say or do certain things to make me less intimidating

Bro just have fun, I get my enthusiasm from wanting to interact with women, I may not get them and they may not like me but they always have a sweet energy unless they are actually acting like a bitch

I build
My skills I learn what I can improve and st the end of the day humans are naturally social

Second way I’m enthusiastic might not be as humble and nice but

I want some ass to! How do you get some? Talking to women so you can bet your tail imma go talk to a woman I think looks good

The other way you gain enthusiasm is just being ready to gain a new experience

ToneZealousideal309 · 2026-07-16T19:51:43+00:00

Well I don’t press on if they seem uninterested but I’ve learned to be less intimidated by girls with “attitude” the more I noticed for many it’s just their way of messing around/being funny.

zerohelix · 2026-07-17T04:55:44+00:00

My enthusiasm was fueled by my desire to get laid

dystopia061 · 2026-07-17T05:23:12+00:00

Being proud of who you are.

Kronuk · 2026-07-16T21:38:16+00:00

Horniness and for some reason a hot girl with a resting bitch face is my thing

ControlGood8979 · 2026-07-16T21:20:39+00:00

Go to Poland every woman there is like that and the surprising thing is they aren't bitchy. Quite the opposite.

duke_awapuhi · 2026-07-17T17:04:33+00:00

Most of them have headphones in and are looking at the ground? Idk about that…. I get enthusiasm for talking to women because I gain enthusiasm from talking to women. I enjoy talking with women and find it fun. They are interesting and I often find myself liking the way they think. If you enjoy the art of conversation, like talking to strangers, find talking to women enjoyable, and are a bit horny, then the really the only logical procession from there is to go out and talk some game

EmpireStrikes1st · 2026-07-17T20:00:38+00:00

Are you enthusiastic about jerking off? No? Then get enthused about talking to girls.

SuitOfWolves · 2026-07-17T23:37:44+00:00

It's the challenge of seeing am I able to put a smile to that sourpuss!

Jason__Hardon · 2026-07-18T00:25:30+00:00

My cock

Imscubbabish · 2026-07-19T03:38:16+00:00

Tone down the anger towards women buddy. Women and people can sense that energy. Be fun and friendly

dogbusinessman · 2026-07-19T19:08:57+00:00

Big titties and a fat ass usually does it

these-usernames · 2026-07-16T19:42:08+00:00

There is no enthusiasm. It’s all just a facade to get in their panties.

Title	Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?
Author	newme19283
Upvotes	29
Comments	60
Date	July 16, 2026 6:35 PM UTC (6 days ago)
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