I've been working hard to improve my life in every possible area.

I have a good job; considerably above the average salary for my country and all the benefits that come with it Car/house etc. I will continue to climb up in that regard.

I gym all the time, and I very recently lowered my bf% to the point were i have a visible 6 pack.

I struggle with online dating because of my ugly face (Big ears, big nose which happens to be crooked to boot and lack of jawline even at low BF%) I am too busy to dedicate whole nights in bars or clubs hoping to cold approach random women. So I want to improve my chances with online dating.

I have read all the online dating guides offered up by trp and the issue is I don't seem to create interest in women I am attracted too. I only seem to maintain contact with women, or secure dates with women if I am the driving force behind constant contact, if I am not driving force. I'll provide an example:

I have to constantly try to entertain and dazzle her, and most times if I don't the conversation stops dead, ends and she never comes back.

I get a fair few replies from women who are fat/single mothers etc/wall women. but even then they expect me to chase them instead of the reverse.

I know all of this is because they perceive me as low value.

On my dating profile right now.

I have 4 pictures in correct order:

One of me in a suit at a wedding

One of me topless in the pool in a foreign country

One of me with a group of women (again on holiday)

One of me at a sporting event.

Its just frustrating when you message countless women who work part time earning min wage, who have never worked hard to earn anything in their life and they don't even respond as if they are better than you. (Butthurt - I dont display it and only post it here as a safe space.)

I don't know if there is any advice anyone can give but I would appreciate it.

I do operate abundance mentality. I maybe messaged 150-200 women in the last 3-4 weeks. The only real interest was from women I could consider myself to be better than.

Women with no career whatsoever, fatties and single mothers.

I'm after a woman is in decent shape and has a career of some description, are they that rare that their value is pushed way up?