Spinning a "go getter" you go grrl archetypal plate who seems to inadvertently try and take the lead more often than not. She's not a cunt about it but she's a little too comfortable throwing out game plans and directive suggestions (i.e. Hey, why don't we go check out so and so restaurant or There's a cool show we should check out). She never just accepts when I tell her we're going here or doing this. Again, she's not a bitch about it but she always offers counter suggestions and it's inappropriate behavior. Would it be entering her frame to specifically talk to her about correcting this bad habit or perhaps better to just withdraw attention?