Never been heartbroken.

mortalnutshell · 2020-11-06T04:31:05+00:00

same. never been heartbroken and never even had bad experiences with women. just observation and rational thought led me to RP.

fretty555 · 2020-11-06T05:13:06+00:00

It wasn't necessarily heartbreak, but what I did realize is that having expectations of people can lead to painful experiences. From then on I've worked on detaching myself from people and not expecting much, but simply working on myself and improving my experience of reality, and also trying to help those in need. Life is not all about women.

BurntYams · 2020-11-06T10:34:48+00:00

Consider yourself lucky. Heartbreak is a fucking bitch, but also the best teacher.

It’s hard to explain but it’s this deep deep pain in your chest. It just fucking hurts and it won’t go away. It’s not some compression or “bruise” you get in your body. It’s indescribable, No amount of painkillers or anything can take it away.

It keeps you from enjoying things, eating, and it keeps you up at night solely because the pain is so overbearing and prominent that you can’t “relax” enough to fall asleep.

I specifically remember, for the couple of months I was heart broken, that the ONLY time I looked forward to was whenever I DID fall asleep, the first few seconds after waking up are the only seconds where there was no pain anymore.

Until 2 seconds later when I remembered everything.

Seriously, those 3 seconds after waking up were amazing because there was no pain, no sadness or betrayal. It was just normal. You just forgot. Then you just remember that this person you believed could never hurt you, lie to you, or betray you just threw everything she ever said to you out the window and nothing she ever said meant anything.

Like you felt this flood of pain come into your chest as you remember all of that.

It’s the fucking worst and it’s crippling.

Luckily I found another girl and she got my mind off things. Worked like a charm.

Now I look back on the relationship that lead to that heart break and can’t help but laugh and kick myself for missing the obvious red flags.

Anyways, to answer your question. During that heartbreak I googled various questions till I found someone mentioning trp. Did some digging and I found this shit whole.

cydestiny · 2020-11-06T05:54:47+00:00

Do you have to get yourself killed to believe in god? I hope not.

But I would say that, analysis paralysis is an anti-growth tool. Almost every stage in life, you will fail, the important thing is how you get up and not try your best to avoid all the failures.

Sure there are failures that will cause permanent consequences but most of the time you will know if you actually think. For the rest of the time, failures, like heartbroken is a way to learn.

Try to get into a LTR whenever there's an opportunity, try your red pill tactics there and fail, then you can see why it fails and what' the solution. Do not wait until it's too late to start something.

The stuff on TRP should act as a guideline not bible, you need to make the call based on yourself.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-11-06T08:29:13+00:00

Never been through no heartbreak or anything like that. I'm from the inner city and I just used what I saw worked. We call it having "game" and its a requirement to fuck bitches.

When I was 12 I wanted to be a Pimp, when I was 13 I said that I'd only lose my virginity to a stripper. I fulfilled both of my dreams in adulthood (I was more of a virtual pimp my hoes made money doing cam shows online and I got the largest cut).

Sometimes your environment plays a role but all this shit is common sense to me I'm just here to help these frustrated reddit chumps 😂

legoord · 2020-11-06T11:24:17+00:00

Found redpill after my narc/bpd ex cheated on me. The gaslighting, storytwisting, projection... it made me a fking psychologist after the break up

Im a loyal person so i take lies and backstabbing realy personal. If you fuck up my trust in you i have no regret thanos snap your whole exsitence out of my life. But...

With my ex it was different. The traumabond was so fking strong, this bitch made me think she was my soul mate. After the cheating i couldnt stop replaying the situation over and over again, every word she said appeared in a whole different meaning. It was like putting the puzzle together and every new piece was like a punch in the gut.

I lost my social cirlce because i was the "bad guy" called smear campaign. Lost alot of weight, every day i woke up i didnt know what is right and what was wrong. Holy shit that was the worst expierence in my life.

After learning about narcs and bpds i found the redpill. Its now little over a year now and i got a new bigger appartment, got a fit body, a new Job, a high quality full arm sleeve, fucked other women and some of them still chasing my ass and i can say im a complete different person now. Mentally and physically. It was a hard way and im not near the end but i know its worth the struggle and i will keep working on myself.

While this bitch is still monkeybranching from one dick to another.

dolmino91 · 2020-11-06T06:25:34+00:00

It was my mother.

daproest1 · 2020-11-06T07:07:43+00:00

It did lead me to TRP... BUT... you’re ahead of the game. No. Heartbreak is not necessary for men, it just happens to us more. And it looks like you actually might avoid it. Which is good.

lemonsiete7 · 2020-11-06T09:46:43+00:00

me and my ex were arguing and I began crying in front of her like a little bitch. Was on YouTube the next day and came across a red pill video it was like a miracle sent from heaven. 8 months later now I’m here and let’s just say Things have only been going up since then.

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