Her past is filled with manipulation and cheating, she says she has grown and is no longer that person, what do i do?

unnatural_by_nature · 2021-03-02T11:03:59+00:00

She probably legitimately believes what she’s saying right now: she has no intention of ever cheating. She also probably didn’t “intend” on cheating before either.

I’d end it not because of the past, but because of the future. The point of an LTR is to assess the viability of marriage in the future and she’s told you loud and clear that she isn’t marriage material, so why bother continuing?

RedCoquette · 2021-03-02T11:31:06+00:00

She is no longer that person...right now. Wait until your next serious disagreement, and her only coping strategies are manipulation and cheating.

____Weabooo_V2 · 2021-03-02T11:13:05+00:00

You spelt ex girlfriend wrong. Stop trying to use red pill tactics to achieve your blue pill goals. You are a clear cut example of a red pill Oreo, red on the outside but deeply blue on the inside. She has obvious red flags that include cheating and out right manipulation of her previous partners, but you still wanna wife her up. You know what the right decision is, stop posting this kind of things to get validation and the okay from us. I’m 100% sure that the red pill veterans would agree with me on this. Your flying to close to the sun, don’t get suprised when you get burnt. It’s debatable whether to even plate her, let alone a LTR. Go lift read the sidebar and gain abundance.

manfrombelow · 2021-03-02T11:49:28+00:00

Who cares what she says, your job is to maintain your frame, sleep with one eye opened and don't treat this woman as if you're going to spend the rest of your life with her.

tudor07 · 2021-03-02T13:04:05+00:00

The best way to predict future behavior is to look at past behavior

wessyy · 2021-03-02T12:12:11+00:00

I wouldn't put my money on this one. Chances are she's telling the truth, chance that she isn't and that you're gonna get cheated on is a lot higher.

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amwfhunter · 2021-03-02T11:16:38+00:00

She is bad news but at least she is honest.

Smerdakas · 2021-03-02T11:27:41+00:00

Tread carefully.

Look at her actions not at her words.

michael1962-01 · 2021-03-02T17:58:48+00:00

Sure. You should wife her up immedeate. Lol.

Title	Her past is filled with manipulation and cheating, she says she has grown and is no longer that person, what do i do?
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Date	March 2, 2021 10:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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