this girl approached me through a friends wife, got her number, texted a little, made plans for a date. I haven't been texting much beyond that. The first time we met up, it went alright, the conversation seemed a little off, but, hey, new people meeting each other. She was enthusiastic about meeting up again. We did about a week later. different place, had some food, talked some more. It's my fault that I picked places both times where i couldn't instigate hardly any kino. The date tonight should fix that. both times we paid for ourselves. The date coming up is a reschedule, She flaked on the last one, then the following night invited me out with some of her friends for drinks, I declined as I had to be up early the next day.

I heard this afternoon that she said this is my last chance to pay for the date. Turns me off to her a bit. Makes me feel like I'm buying her affection. Is this a shit test to be passed? Is this a huge red flag or just something that needs to be corrected?