I have been struggling with this for a while, to put words down eloquently. While /r/MensRights has opened up my mind and thoughts to things I had found very evident before this we also need to look at what Feminism has failed and rise above, for all gender's sakes. We need to stop upvoting childish bulshit, but we also need to recognize all genders causes. Now this may not particularly help the most embittered by these experiences (I know I have a hard time too) but it would help the validity of our struggle to allow for knowledge, and to fight for all struggles of injustice. This is a common pattern that I have read of all fights, which is one particular subsection of a culture finally gets and invite to the table and another gets pressed down.
With men's rights getting pressed down it seems like the same old fight that there always is, with one community being brought up another gets push in the corner. The Irish with the blacks. The blacks with the gays. The women pushing men. The right against gays and women. I think to assist us, as a movement, we need to inform each other, all these movements to fight against any injustice. Whether it be a class struggle, a racial struggle, a gender struggle, to be there when a person is unfairly put into the wrong. Otherwise you are just going to have some sociopath push to the front and push their power agenda. Which is where women's liberation has gone wrong. Crazy fucks got in charge of a cultural change, and we have to change that game. We, not as men, but people have to voice that message across the universal struggles we have.

This isn't the way I wished to vocalized it, but we have to put our hand out to help fill the divide.