Tips for a 15 year old?

Refigerator1043 · 2016-02-21T13:18:26+00:00

I would KILL to be able to go back in time and find TRP at 15, but it didn't exist then.

My advice: Don't waste any time playing video games. Get rid of whatever games you have. They are a huge time suck and you will really regret it.

50pluspiller · 2016-02-21T10:09:53+00:00

Here is what I would tell my 15 year old self. It's about focusing on yourself to be a real man. You are laying the foundation for the next 65 plus years.

Focus on your grades, learn computers, track towards STEM. Learn simple meditation.

Learn to groom and style yourself. Become self aware.

Learn personal finance and start saving money. Compound interest is your friend.

Don't let chicks derail your goals as they will try. Getting laid at this point in your life is not all that it's cracked up to be. Don't get stuck on one chick. Always wrap the rascal.

Eat clean and make that your lifestyle, it will then stick with you for life. Keep your fitness up, as well as your hobbies. I would add reading the classics such as Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, The book of five rings, Book of Samurai. There's lot to learn and absorb.

Lift, push, pull, drag heavy shit.. Hit heavy shit.

There you go, have at it, this shut will keep you busy and out of trouble. You will have a great life.

Forget what other kids think or say, you are to be your own best man you can be. Cool kids really are not.

nathanisfat · 2016-02-21T11:44:49+00:00

Don't get anyone pregnant.

Rorta · 2016-02-21T12:59:12+00:00

Most of the 'cool kids' I was at high school with are now certified losers. Don't worry about being 'cool'. If your focus is on getting laid remain on the outside and learn game. At school the people who scored the most pussy weren't the athletes who had fairly hot girlfriends but the guys on the sidelines.

If you want to meet girls, network or approach. I've always preferred the networking approach as its simply more natural and significantly easier when you're younger and you don't have access to bars/clubs/etc.

SpinPlates · 2016-02-21T14:08:30+00:00

Get your diet in check and get down to 11ish%

Other than that keep doing what you're doing

batfish55 · 2016-02-21T15:42:29+00:00

First and foremost, try not to give a shit about what the other kids in high school say and think about you. I've been out of high school longer than you've been alive, and I only talk to 3-4 people from high school. Nobody in life past high school gives a shit about what happened to most of the other people from high school. I was in the top 1-5% in high school too.

Girls in high school: I was nervous because "What if the other kids know I like her??? I mean, LIKE HER, like her?" I don't mean to be a dick, but you really have to get over that shit if you want to get women. Women will never make the first move, which means, if anyone's ever gonna fuck, the guy has to make the first move. Which means, she's gonna know you like her. Just don't be a beta nice-guy, friendly bitch who acts like her friend but never makes a pass at her. As a matter of fact, if you don't make a pass as her soon after meeting her, she's going to put you in the friend-zone, and you never get out of the friend-zone.

FUCK high school parties. FUCK that 'cool kid' mentality. Yea, it sucks now, and your life up until this point seems like it's been soooo long, but so far, it's just a flash in the pan, and those cool kids rarely make anything of themselves. Google 'peaked in high school.'

Good god, this is just like writing a letter to my 15 year old self. You lucky bastard, I wish I had RP when I was your age.

I'm an Electrical Engineer. Fun fact: few electronic devices have ZERO code in them. Your microwave? There's a little bit of code in it. Your TV remote? There can be a lot of code in that. Your fucking xbox controller has code in it. I wanted to do enough code to make my devices work. I can. BUT, everywhere I go, everyone wants me to do a shit-ton of coding, but my brain just doesn't work like that. If you have a knack for it, learn C, C++, Java, maybe VHDL (although that's a lower level hardware descriptor language). I don't know much about C#, so I have no opinion. Higher-level, object-oriented programming is where it's at. Learning to code android apps would definitely be good. Get good at them. You'll never be rich, but you'll never be poor. Well, you might get rich. A guy I worked with was at our job around 2 years. Quit. Doubled his salary at new job.

If you want to get a job coding, you're going to have to go to school. Gone are the days where you could code and get a job. They've been gone for a while now. Pretty much since computer science (CS) became a real major.

FYI - coding in high school will not get you pussy. You're a dork. You're a nerd. (That's ok, so am I) This does not get pussy. But you're in high school to get to a good college. Keep your eye on the prize. Pussy will be plentiful in college. Even if you're a dork.

DO NOT stop playing guitar. Your 25 and 30 year old selves will thank you. See above. Get hobbies/interests to do when you're not in school.

LIFT. It is soooo much easier to get into awesome shape when you're that young.

DO NOT believe people that say a STEM degree is worthless. Yes, some fields are better than others, but any STEM is better than english, or history, or liberal arts, etc. Yes, I'm biased, but I believe that any engineering field is better than other fields. It's because job skills, how to do things, are embedded in the classes. Math, physics, perhaps biology, are all great as far as 'this is how this works,' but short on 'this is how you use it.'

DO NOT commit to a relationship. AT LEAST until you're 25. 30 would be better.

I'm going to assume you're a virgin. I was at 15. Spoiler alert: you're going to suck at fucking your first time. I'm still embarrassed at my performance for the first few girls I was with. First, you can't just slam your cock into her until she's good and wet, and even then, you need to go slow. In a little, pull out, in a little deeper, pull out, etc. Gotta get all of everybody's parts lubed up before you can start pumping away. Second, stroking your cock feels great, and pussy's even better. She's going to enjoy it, but that'll never get her off. Work that clit. You want to know how to eat pussy? Watch porn made BY women, FOR women. If you see lesbian porn where the chicks are just jamming as much shit as they can into their pussies, that's how you know it's lesbian porn for guys. Lesbian porn for lesbians is a lot of kissing, touching/feeling/grabbing, and licking. Maybe a finger or two. How do I know this? An ex of mine was bi. Went to some swingers parties. We would fuck girls together. I watched how girls eat pussy. That's how I do it now.

While I'm on sex, a guy should sleep around. Every girl I've every been with taught me something new about how to please a chick, most taught me something I didn't know that I liked. Some might be logistical (keep baby wipes next to the bed to clean up after, sex gets messy), some might be technical (learn the right way to pull her hair). But I've always learned something from a new chick. When you meet a girl that's worthwhile, knowing how to please her is a great way to keep her around.

Wrap that shit up. Every time. DO NOT knock some chick up. Also, NEVER go bareback. Once you do, you can't go back. Not until/unless you've had a vasectomy.

Don't hate women. Hate that society tells you to do things "this way," when you get ahead and do better by doing the opposite.

This is where I plug The Rational Male

Good Luck!

Phyzis · 2016-02-21T16:00:06+00:00

Basic advice: always be honest with yourself. What can't be measured can't be managed. I had a tendency to over exxagerate any and all accomplishments as a teen, and I also talked out of my ass and bragged about things I hadn't even done yet. You might think you're doing good in the gym, but has your muscle mass been consistently increasing? Have your lifts been steadily increasing? Numbers don't lie, so track everything.

GC0W30 · 2016-02-21T16:56:59+00:00

Keep up with all of your friends as you age. They will be important in business later.

oglowkey · 2016-02-21T09:54:10+00:00

It's good that you have found trp early in life. It will save you a lot of trouble later on. Now my only advice to you is to read and internalize the information given in the sidebar. This sub is really for people who have specific questions.

I will however give you one important piece of advice. There are no cool kids. Be your own man and work on yourself and you will find out all this stress about popularity is a waste of time.

RedRhapsody · 2016-02-21T19:20:03+00:00

Check /u/PemBayliss post history. It's literally what you're asking for.

PemBayliss · 2016-02-21T19:44:29+00:00

Step 1.

Step 1A.

Step 2.

To be continued.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-02-21T14:12:30+00:00

Copying my response from a separate thread. ...

Age 13: be proficient at some sport and have kissed a girl. Compete starting strength.

Age 14: win some award, have a squad, have had oral or at least touched boobs ass or puss intimately

Age 15: understand confidence and start cultivating a reputation as a high value young male. Multiple girlfriends and stories

Age 16: lose virginity (anal counts).

Age 17: understand charisma and start leading groups.

Age 18: understand machivellianism and start manipulating individuals / groups of peers and even adults

Age 19: double digit partner count

Age 20: run shit socially and maintain a reputation as fun, friendly, honest, and open

Age 21: over 30 partners. Businesses should be begging for you to work for them. Girls eat out of your hand and guys respect you as amog.

Age 22: embrace and perfect some aspect of the DT.

Age 23: over 50 partners

Title	Tips for a 15 year old?
Author	Destroyer8769
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Date	February 21, 2016 9:08 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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