35 Practical Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution

monsieurhire2 · 2014-06-02T06:21:14+00:00

Translation: Be our slaves.

Guys who do this to the womyn: "I did everything you asked, now will you have sex with me?"

Womyn: "No, we like you more as a friend. BTW, could you do even more? We're still dissatisfied."

bama79rolltide · 2014-06-02T06:16:11+00:00

This is the red pill counter to every one of these absurd statements. I agreed only with ONE of them, but not for her reasoning.

She says:

"The list is not intended to be exhaustive or exclusive. Certain items on the list will apply to some men more than others, but if you are a man and a human I guarantee there is at least one area on the list where you could make an improvement."

So, the women are perfect and do not need improvement. Got it.

Do 50% (or more) of housework. You need to do your share of housework all the time, of your own accord, without procrastinating, without being asked, without making excuses. Recognize that our domestic habits and our internalized ideas about unpaid domestic work are hugely gendered, hugely benefit men, and accept that it is your responsibility to fight against this. If feminism is the theory, clean dishes are the practice. Over the next week, take note of how much housework you do as compared to women you live with and note where it is or is not an equitable division.

Are you fucking kidding me? Women don't do a fair share of housework. This clraly implies that all women are slaving at household chores. This simply isnt fact.

2 Women are the only humans that have emotions.

3 Feminize things men like, because men can't have exclusive things.

4 implies that all men are creeps and out to get women.

5 says to white knight and involve yourself in a situation which is none of your business.

6 is hilarious. Seriously.

7 be cautious. She may cry rape.

8 Ok, this is bullshit. "If your partner prefers a particular method, let her be in charge of making that decision without questioning or complaining about it. Don’t whine about condom usage, and be responsible for buying them and having them available if that’s the method you’re using. "

Again, it says LET HER BE IN CHARGE OF MAKING THAT DECISION WITHOUT QUESTIONING IT" Are you fucking serious? Fuck off.

"Assume financial responsibility for any costs related to contraception. Women earn less than men, and also have to assume all the physical risk of pregnancy. Further, in instances where contraception involves any amount of physical risk, it is virtually always women who must assume this risk. As a gesture that redresses a minuscule amount of this disparity, heterosexual men should finance the whole cost of contraceptives."

So, we have to foot the bill for prevention that we shouldn't question. This isnt equality. It's bullshit.

9 Passing the buck, AGAIN

10 Get real. Men will never ever change their last names.

11 " Divide childcare responsibilities so that you are doing at least 50% of the work, and ensure it is divided such that you and your partner both get to spend an equal amount of “play” time with your children too." STOP viewing it as a constest. This is the kind of shit that breaks up marriages.

12 I laughed. I can't even reply to how stupid this is.

13 "Where you benefit from these structural imbalances, educate yourself about your privilege and work on finding ways to create a more equitable balance of power."

How about her privilege when it comes to divorce, alimony and child support and custody?

14 I would never ever espouse feminist theory. I have a brain.

15 Mission: Impossible. I chuckled though.

16 "Example: Your credit card debt/money wastage/gambling problem impacts her economic livelihood and future. Share budget making, tax filing, and general personal finance duties and be open and honest about household money management."

So, she never ran up a credit card in her life with reckless shopping and unnecessary purchases? How about when she leaves and it affects the man economically?

17 I finally agree. Men, don't be bone headed about your health. Do it for you, and only you. Do not be embarrased. However, do not go because she nags you, go because you need to go for you, and if you have kids, to see them grow. They need their fathers!

18 Never ever tell a woman that you find her attractive. Got it.

19 Women do not follow this same demand. Looking at you, Oprah.

20 Not a fucking chance.

21 I do, when they earn it. But it has to be of merit, not of bullshit. If I see a woman give CPR to someone and save their life, thats commendable. Just being a woman is not.

22 I don't think it is wrong, because he will only do those things if he is prompted to by the woman's actions.

23 So, she sould never be a hinderance if we weren't doing everything right. I'm responsible for her emotions? What about independence?

24 According to this bitch, they never ever would be high enough.

25 I don't need any. They are self righteous, and will abandon me in a heartbeat. Hell, women can't get along with each other.

26 I can't find any leaders of a couse that is commendable. A bake sale does not apply here.

27 "Remember your family members’ birthdays, anniversaries and important events. Don’t rely on your spouse to send cards, make phone calls, organize reunions, etc. It is your family, and thus your responsibility to remember, care about, and contact them."

Oh, so it's MY family now, not OURS. Got it.

28 It's okay for you to dress like a whore, even in a professional setting. Women need to know what is acceptable and what isn't, because they havent figured it out yet.

29 Offer to accompany female friends if they have to walk home alone at night… "or in a public space where they may be likely to feel unsafe, but don’t be pushy about it or act like you are being the Ultimate Gentleman for doing so."

Sorry, you are an independent woman. You figure it out.

30 I'll let my father do his own work in his marriage, as my best friend. I do agree with the last line, as I don't want my little brother hit with a false rape charge

31 "If you have a tendency to behave inappropriately toward women when you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol, do not consume drugs or alcohol." Same thing should be said when college sluts drink themselves to a black out stage.

32 I don't think men just sit around like worthless slobs.

33 Here we go again 77%. Ok, if this is the case, why do we not see a nation strictly employed by women? If I could legally pay a woman 77 cents versus a dollar, I would never ever hire the "dollar" workers, because I would make a killing with cheaper labor. Its common business sense about profits.

34 Total lie in every sense.

35 I refuse to castrate myself and commit treason. I'm a man. I am not a feminist.

Hope you guys enjoyed. I may get flair points.

musicmusicmusic420 · 2014-06-02T06:03:35+00:00

Number 36: Be a giant pussy

Fine_Particles · 2014-06-02T09:15:09+00:00

36: Die a worthless, unloved, unrespected, forgotten fool.

37: Rot in feminist hell.

thefamiliarsound · 2014-06-02T07:04:59+00:00

The only one of these i agree with is #17 about being in control of your own health. No shit.

"If a seat is available on public transit next to a man, take that seat rather than one next to a woman. If you are walking outside in the dark close to a woman walking alone, cross the street so that she doesn’t have to worry someone is following her. If a woman is standing alone on a subway platform, stand some distance away from her. "

Are you kidding lady? How do you expect to whip us into being your little pussy whipped bitch boys if you don't want us to ever even approach you in the first place? Treating women as if they all have leprosy and always staying a "safe distance" away benefits neither them or us.

McRedMan · 2014-06-02T08:17:19+00:00

34) Get in the habit of treating your maleness as an unearned privilege that you have to actively work to cede rather than femaleness being an unearned disadvantage that women have to work to overcome.

Holy female solipsism on a cheese platter. The density of this statement is hysterical and the implications of it are truly stupid;

"I can't do it, therefore you need to downgrade yourself so we can be even."

What?

apackofwankers · 2014-06-02T07:02:55+00:00

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JohnNashoba · 2014-06-02T07:03:04+00:00

Well I do numbers:

1, 2, 4, 7-ish (It gets ambiguous in the heat of the moment), 8-ish (For my own), 9, 11, 12, 14, 16, 17, 21, 22-ish (if he's being an asshole and stealing money not cool bro), 25, 27, 29.

So either I'm not RP material anymore, and/or I'm a feminist.

P.S. Also take note, I just read the bolded points at first. I went back and read the explanations, reevaluated from her perspective, and my face was like ಠ_ಠ^{WTF^{she's^{a^{little^crazy.}}}}

2014-06-02T06:54:03+00:00

jeezus fuck!

the author might as well be asking [nagging] me to cut off my balls and give em to her.

RPsixthree · 2014-06-02T09:27:23+00:00

Oh my god this is great. So many pathetic complaints in there, this had to be written by a woman or emasculated man.

Check it out:

do your share of housework all the time, of your own accord, without procrastinating, without being asked, without making excuses

Absolutely. This is also called being an adult.

internalized ideas about unpaid domestic work are hugely gendered, hugely benefit men, bla bla bla

wow

unpaid domestic work

This shit isn't work. That shit is not being a disgusting slob with a dirty home and unwashed dishes in the sink.

Complaining about housework is some of the most juvenile and asinine bullshit. But complaining that you do not get PAID for doing something as natural as taking care of the things you own and the place you inhabit? That's a new low. Even for feminists.

Just get the fuck up and do the fucking dishes. That shit takes like 10 minutes max. Are you fucking kidding me. Unpaid work. You lazy piece of shit.

emotional labour and that being responsible for this takes away time and energy from things they find fulfilling

Emotional labour. Holy shit they are even too lazy to care about people they are supposed to love and care about. Wow

Consume cultural products produced by women

I would, if most of that shit wasn't so full of weak emotional bullshit and geared towards women. I don't give a fuck that you still think about "the one that got away" and other bullshit like that.

I do consume cultural products produced by women, but only if it is actually worth consuming. The fact that it was made by a woman isn't of substance to me. I don't differentiate by gender. I differentiate by quality.

Many women walk around—especially at night or while alone—feeling on edge and unsafe

Well shit. It's really funny to me, seeing as this was definitely written by some heavily privileged woman in an affluent society. Shit's safe as can be. Chances that you will be attacked in your daily life are close to zero, but these bitches still want more.

Well guess what, I too want to play with wild animals and hug a bear, but I realize that that isn't how the world works. If you want do feel safe, don't put yourself in dangerous situations.

If I don't want to get in a fight, I don't provoke people. I don't expect people to change their very nature and suddenly turn into peaceful beings that can't do any harm.

But since these women are so dense, they can't even realize that 99% of men are not out there to harm them. I'd wager 98% of men don't even give a shit about them. It's all in their heads, but they won't get that. Feelz = realz

... but insert yourself into spaces where you can use your maleness to interrupt sexism.

But of course, men can and should put themselves in harms way. Never mind that nothing would have happened to you anyway. Better insert a man into the picture and change the stakes. Suddenly there is this effeminate male feminist all up in this brute's face. That will work out fine. Men have been known to never start shit over bitches.

And if you do get hit because you decided to confront a man over some bullshit, that's fine too because you are a man and you can take it. Sexism only exists when women are affected.

be in a position to call for help if needed

bitch help yourself. I thought you were strong and independent? So why the dependence on other people or law enforcement?

Wait, maybe you're not independent at all...

Jesus christ I'm fucking done with this shit.

That entire list is getting worse with every line. Goddamn.

Your life, your responsibility. I thought you were an adult. So act like it

HumanSockPuppet · 2014-06-02T05:59:24+00:00

From the article:

Part of living in a patriarchal society

The article assumes a premise that has not been proven, namely the existence of a patriarchy.

What does TRP think of it? "More useless tripe from apologists to the tampon army."

riverraider69 · 2014-06-02T07:02:15+00:00

I'm going to pick on the first, because it's the first and because we happen to have hard evidence (though please don't make me look for sources before coffee...)

Do 50% (or more) of housework

This is gender-symmetrical, and applies to many many things, not just marriages: we tend to see what we do, and be blind to what others contribute. No matter what the division of work will be, the reported percentages will always be above 100% (i.e. both doing 60% of the work, or 80-40 etc).

This is the reality. How you deal with it is a matter of choice - if you want to be a good BP husband, it means you'll have to make sure you do at least a subjective 60% to break even. Personally I'd suggest clear boundaries which don't overlap: one does X, the other Y.

BlakeThePUA · 2014-06-02T20:24:48+00:00

It's quite the read, but I responded to every one of those points:

1) Do 50% (or more) of housework.

*That's perfectly fine, if you're paying 50% (or more) of the bills with money earned by your (wo)manhours. That's a perfectly equitable arrangement. *The cohabitant who is paying 25% of the bills should do 75% of the chores. If the cohabitant is paying 0% of the bills should do 100% of the chores. Again, this is perfectly equitable. *If the cohabitant is not paying any percentage of the bills and is not doing any percentage of the chores, then the cohabitant is not honoring any equitable arrangement of any kind. *If no party is doing chores, the cohabitant responsible has all responsibility for any health or sanitation issues that may arise, especially if children are involved. If I have children with you and you're not cleaning house and I pay all of the bills, YOU are the one responsible for the child abuse that will result, I.E, if the children get sick from unsanitary conditions. If I have to work and clean you you do nothing, you're gone. Oh, and I will make sure I have all bargaining power before I enter any kind of arrangement. Feminism lets you have the house and the kids no matter how culpable either pary is. I'm just covering my basis for WOMENS' gender privilege.

2) Do 50% (or more) of emotional support work in your intimate relationships and friendships.

What the fuck are you talking about? What the fuck does this mean? Is this another exaple of the pervasive solution to the demand "just be there for me?" No self-respecting man has ever understood this question without becoming a beta male. Beta males get divorced.

3) Consume cultural products produced by women.

What!? Okay, what if they are boring? I know of some awesome movies that were directed by women: Fast Times at Ridgemont High was directed Amy Heckerling, the Hurt Locker and Zero Dark Thirty are both war movies directed by Kathryn Bigelow, and those movies either won or were nominated for best picture, respectively. The Uncharted game series are highly regarded by the gaming community at large and were directed by Amy Hennig. The female Commander Shepard on Mass Effect has been hailed as an icon of female gaming, and I prefer playing as her, because Jennifer Hale is a superior voice actress. J.K. Rowling is the richest writer in the world. Not "female writer," not "writer of fiction," not "writer of English literature," she's the richest "WRITER."

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Title	35 Practical Tools for Men to Further Feminist Revolution
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Date	June 2, 2014 5:22 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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