How high should your body count be?

anddennn · 2016-03-09T16:22:10+00:00

My body count is 4. They are buried under my garden.

vengefully_yours · 2016-03-09T17:41:32+00:00

You underestimate girls. 20? Fuck, that can be a years worth of she is busy with her job and shit. They can do that in a month easy if they aren't fat.

I'm old, almost 47. Hit 100+ in my 30s, spent 18 years monogamous. I open locks relatively easily. Best recollection is 120+ now and I really don't give a fuck about fucking anymore. Have more important shit to do, so only fuck a new one every few months to once a year. I have a few I can fuck at any time, but it's not a priority for me.

If you're getting some, you're doing OK, it's not a competition. The only prizes you can win are herpes, drippy dick, and child support payments.

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leftajar · 2016-03-09T16:28:25+00:00

Do you feel like you need to run through a bunch of cuties? Yes? That's just fine, and I felt the same way. Know what it is: you need to feel that you've experienced variety, so that when you finally settle down, you don't feel like you've missed out on anything.

That's a legit feeling, and should be pursued. Hell, I'm doing it right now. Thanks to dating apps, I've banged four new girls so far this year, with another three in the pipeline.

Just know this -- it does eventually lose its lustre. Dating is a lot of work, and I would trade all this effort setting up dates and texting back and forth for an awesome GF. At this point, that is. Do what you gotta do.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-03-09T17:01:36+00:00

Do you guys think body count matters? Why or why not?

Let me put it this way: If a guy is constantly changing jobs, never making any sustainable amount of money or job progression, and is always bored and moving on to different things like a kid in a candy store, does that make him a valuable worker and provider based on his large variance of work experience? Is this something a girl finds attractive? Absolutely NOT.

reserved1012 · 2016-03-09T17:03:02+00:00

The whole notch count thing is resminiscient of Roosh or Neil Straiss or RSD. Go fuck women until you feel like the effort out weighs the benefit. We all have that phase. I quite enjoyed mine but it ended eventually. I don't turn down sex obviously but I go after girls I'm actually interested in rather than any one that lets me hit it.

Guys getting stuck in that phase end up trapped in relationships with girls they aren't even attracted to. So if you just want pussy go get it but don't give your commitment out to anyone that doesn't deserve it )in my opinion none at all).

Wolfwoodd · 2016-03-09T18:08:06+00:00

I lost my V-card at the age of 20. I started learning pick-up when i was 24. I'm 33 now, with a partner count of 60ish. A surprisingly few of those were 1-night stands. I was just never a fan of monogamy. I love the poly/open/plate-spinning lifestyle. If you sleep with 5-10 new girls a year, then it starts to add up over time.

1NV0K3R · 2016-03-09T16:50:05+00:00

I'm pushing almost 30 I think, ranging from 2's to 8's, I'm 27.

Tinder is a wasteland, depending on where you live (as is all online dating). It's better to approach in person or through activities.

Yes it matters, you should experience the gamut of women, no it doesn't matter because the end goal isn't to have women be your only source of pleasure/validation.

fnordsnord · 2016-03-09T17:58:57+00:00

Fuck women if you feel like it and they're into you. Don't do so if not.

The only pussy that ever REALLY matters is your FIRST and your LAST. The ones in between, while fun, are the past.

fnordsnord · 2016-03-09T18:00:49+00:00

So I don't think the N is THAT important, but I do think N>0 matters. It doesn't make THAT much difference if your N is still in single digits when you graduate college if you are living your life the way you want.

Most guys, whatever their N, want it to be N+1. And that never really changes.

Gawernator · 2016-03-09T19:38:52+00:00

Honestly I don't really count anymore or keep track. I went from 0 to 15-20 something from 18-22.

I much prefer a couple solid plates or a strong LTR... random sex is weird for me most the time and uncomfortable on a mental level. Risk of STD's ain't a joke either. Your number really doesn't matter much. I am much happier with a LTR overall, hooking up is a short term strategy and takes more work sometimes

[deleted] · 2016-03-09T19:56:31+00:00

In my experience talking to other guys, once you hit 20 you've fucked enough to build as much confidence in your game as you'll ever need. Just a matter of feeling like you've had a good amount variety. Dont just fuck the same type over and over. Fuck skinny, thick, white, black, latina, asian, tall, short, pear body, huge tits, etc.

We spend a lot of time talking abt how women dont know what they want. Neither do you. Dont get a big head and shortchange yourself by pigeonholing yourself.

RPFreebase · 2016-03-09T20:05:19+00:00

First, matches on tinder are a poor indicator of what you are capable of pulling in real life, or even other online dating. Forget about that. Also, you have a BJ count? Is this a thing now?

What are you really asking for? Reassurance and ego validation that a broke, good-looking dude still living with his parents can have sex with a hot girl? The answer is of course yes but this is not where your priorities should be. Your mission should be making your life awesome as hell.

That said, yes of course N count matters and anyone who thinks otherwise is deluding himself. But it only matters up to a certain point. I have found it is much easier to have abundance than to fake abundance, i.e. when I hang out with a chick my behavior indicates that I am very experienced with women, I know what I want, and if she does not provide it I will find someone else who can.

Like some others here at this point I prefer ongoing FWBs/plates/poly whatever you want to call it as opposed to super casual stuff. Hell I'd probably even do good ol' fashioned monogamy if I found a chick I thought was worthy, but that doesn't seem to be happening any time soon. The ability to make an informed choice like that comes from having a certain amount of experience.

oldredder · 2016-03-10T04:02:16+00:00

no limit / just watch your health

I believe body count matters because it's almost like a point system that shows progress.

it's not so your belief is nonsense.

princepeanutbutter · 2016-03-10T14:26:59+00:00

After 20 it became much more about quality for me. I mean honestly one 7 is as good as another and if you have a couple few plates already it's much easier to just bypass all the bullshit and fuck them (I usually plate 7s they tend to be the lowest maintenance while still hot enough to keep me coming back).

So I do that and that and casually work on 9s when I find them. I never keep 9s for long though. You can actually try some experimental game with them, you'd be surprised how well it works just to know you're going to fuck a chick if you give yourself a proper 3 even 4 dates and treat it like a little side project. Not sure about you but my fuckup in the past, during my high count days, was always going for the insta bang. Left me with low quality women.

Title	How high should your body count be?
Author	avatarrangg
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Date	March 9, 2016 4:13 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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