I am married. Most days it is generally tolerable. Some days it is a misery. Rarely is it enjoyable. I find marriage to be lackluster at best. I think the answer for most men is to stay single. Most of the posts in this subreddit are from men getting gutted by a woman they once loved. Just have your fun and stay single. I tell my son who is years from marriage to avoid it. It is not worth the effort or stress. Good luck to those in the process of divorcing.