I stopped playing the game

My_Legz · 2026-08-12T13:40:54+00:00

Just like you shouldn't date women who are not attracted to you, you shouldn't date women who hate you. It really should be self evident

Donnie607 · 2026-08-12T14:51:01+00:00

Funny thing is these man hating feminists will get mad at you for having self-respect and not playing their game 🤣

Ok-Service5891 · 2026-08-12T13:40:27+00:00

Man the drive through line killed me. You're right about one thing though, some people get so deep into the ideology they forget how to just be a person around others. That comedy show comment would've made me walk too, not out of anger but just sheer boredom with the script.

mrkpxx · 2026-08-12T15:27:07+00:00

Totally understandable. I don't get how other men can see it any differently—you say: "We really need to stop giving these women attention."

The key is that we separate them. Those women who act feminine and warm should receive our full, undivided attention.

Decon_SaintJohn · 2026-08-12T23:56:38+00:00

I think one of the biggest issues in this is the feminist men. Those men that grovel at the feet of all women, who have no self respect and act as if being masculine is a derogatory quality to have as a man. They have essentially emasculated themselves at the cost of appeasing to all women.

Imthezoro · 2026-08-13T05:07:17+00:00

Man, that is so true. There are so many men out here who lack self worth and self respect, spending their time, attention, and resources on women who give very little in return and simply take advantage of what they’re being offered. What’s even sadder is that some of these men actually know they’re being used, yet they continue chasing these women anyway.

A lot of it comes down to a lack of self respect. They convince themselves that they need a woman so badly, when in reality, they need to realize their own value. Your attention, time, and resources are valuable. And if someone only wants you around because of what you can provide, then once you’re no longer useful to them, they’ll have no problem ignoring you and moving on.

Men need to understand that having standards and respecting yourself is more important than desperately trying to keep someone’s attention.

Powerful-Act3516 · 2026-08-12T14:15:51+00:00

Agree. But it should go without saying that guys who (rightly) say no to this bigoted garbage absolutely cannot be gender dicks, either.

Tony_H_Stank512 · 2026-08-13T06:26:23+00:00

I don't think feminist is the right word here, as i have met some of the OG feminists from the 60s and they hate it just as much as I do.

Comfortable_Bug6586 · 2026-08-14T20:33:33+00:00

My dating apps profile is a "best effort" project. If I get matches, great. If I don't, it's not a big deal. Match rates are low anyway, and many apps hide the matches behind paywalls. I also make my preferences very clear at the end of my profile:

P.S. Tattoos are a turn-off for me. I respect different opinions, but if you're a radical leftist, communist, or feminist, we're not a match.

For me, this saves time wasters and helps avoid incompatible matches from the start. Every now and then, I get matches from butthurt women who seem more interested in challenging that statement than actually dating. Some will say, "You can't say that!," while others match just try to gaslight me - “I just matched to see who is the man still thinking like that nowadays”.

Personally, I'd rather be upfront about my preferences and let people decide for themselves whether we're compatible. If there was enough space on the description, I would also add that "If you need to use pronouns we are also not a match"!

Bright_Avocado · 2026-08-13T09:31:33+00:00

Most American men are simps and idolaters of women. Imagine a society with no beta orbiters, no opposite-sex “friends,” and no sex with nonvirgin women (and certainly no marriages with them). You - yes, you - are capable of leading by example to point society in those directions. This movement’s not going anywhere, and I can’t think of any better ways for you to participate in it.

Promiscuous men prop up women’s egos just as much as simps do. The difference is that the former validate them through sex, and the latter through attention. The only winning move is to marry a Christian virgin (but not through the government) and raise a family in a conservative town. You can still do all of the above in the West. Many of you dislike the “Christian virgin” part, but there are obvious advantages to both of those characteristics.

Title	I stopped playing the game
Author	FrequentPotato6116
Upvotes	97
Comments	10
Date	August 12, 2026 1:35 PM UTC (4 days ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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