I am currently trying to find a Christian woman to date and eventually marry. I am currently trying to figure out my dating strategy and my Instagram is pretty bad. 170 followers, 175 following, and 1 post. I’ve had the account for 5 years and kick people off I don’t like and just use it to send memes to my friends.

If I cold approach a girl and she has no idea who I am or I cold DM a woman I am afraid this a red flag. My friends aren’t super into Instagram either so we don’t take a lot of photos and I’m not that performative for others so I don’t either.

Do I put effort into setting up trips with the boys or focus on meeting people in my city - metaphorically is there a massive hole in my bucket right now?