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[–]16 Endorsed Contributorbankruptedcasino4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You reject girls everyday. You just don't know you're doing it.
When a girl looks at you in public and you look away, you might be rejecting her.
When a girl smiles at you and you don't smile back, you're rejecting her.
When a girl asks you a personal question in a setting where personal questions are not usually asked (i.e., in the Starbucks line, going through the drive-thru, when signing in at your local tanning salon), and you don't indicate interest, you're rejecting her. Caveat: Questions like "How's your day today?" are not personal questions. Questions like, "Really nice weather we're having isn't it?" might be personal questions. It depends on how she asks it. Questions like, "Are you a dog person? You look like a dog person" are definitely personal questions and an indicator of interest (the girl who checks me in at my tanning salon asked me this and I pulled her #).
When you go on a date with a girl and you don't text her after, that might be a rejection.
When a girl's friend starts asking you personal questions seemingly out of nowhere, then asks if you know so-and-so, and you don't indicate interest, that's a rejection.
When a girl asks if you're seeing anyone and you say no, then you don't follow it up with any seduction of the girl who just asked you that question, that's a rejection.
Girls indicate interest differently than guys. They indicate interest through a veil of plausible deniability, meaning that they always put out a feeler with an escape hatch attached to it. In one of the examples above, where a girl asks you personal questions out of nowhere, and you don't reciprocate, she can hamster it away as, "Oh, I was just being friendly. I wasn't really into him like that." Even if she was. That's how they "approach." They put out feelers, and see if you take the bait. If you don't, they know you're not interested - without having to be overt about it.
This is why girls call guys who can't take a hint "creepy." To them, it's obvious when a guy isn't interested. So they leave you alone. But to us, girls are a mystery. We don't know for sure. Is she in or is she out? We don't know because how girl communicates attraction is similar for guys that she's interested in and guys that she's not.
What to do about this paradox? Nothing. It's a double standard inherent to the biological sexes as much as the fact that a man who fucks around is respected, while a girl who fucks around is not.
I don't know if you're a troll or not. Even if you are, this is going to help others who read your post and complain about this kind of thing:
Rejection is part of the Game.
You cannot avoid rejection. Nobody bats 1.000. I've been out with naturals and other members of the seduction community who F-close women with ease. I've seen these guys go through crippling, months-long slumps. I've seen them approach 20 women and get blown out by all 20. I've seen them get flaked on. I've seen them get stood up. I've seen them get LJBF'd. I've seen them cheated on. I've seen them get used, manipulated, and jerked around. I've seen it all. It happens to alphas as much as it happens to betas and below. The difference, I think, is that alphas are rejected by higher-quality women (8's, 9's, and 10's). But it still happens.
If you think that reading up on Game and studying TRP are going to completely insulate you from rejection, you are in for a rude awakening.
The only thing that Game and TRP can do for you in the rejection area, and I mean the only thing is to steel your resolve to the point where rejection doesn't phase you.
Last weekend, I met a brunette with blue eyes. That's #1, top-down, immediate attraction. She recently graduated from a major SEC school, in a sorority known for cheerleaders and beauty queens. And, lo and behold, she was a cheerleader for the same, major SEC school. A solid 9, she wasn't the most attractive girl on the squad but she was extremely attractive and had a really nice personality to boot.
We chatted off and on at the club where we met for a cumulative total of 20-25 minutes. We flirted. We touched each other constantly. My game was solid. Her game was solid. I made a move, she reciprocated. She made a move, I reciprocated. I pulled the number a few minutes before she was going to bounce to another venue. After I closed the number, she says, "You're really cute. Like, really cute." I told her I'd text her.
Two days later, I did.
Nothing.
No response.
Ghosted.
Did I do something wrong? Maybe. Does she have a boyfriend? Who knows. Did she wake up the next morning and feel a pang of regret? I have no idea.
All that matters is that she indicated she was not interested. Fine. I deleted the number and moved on. I went out the next night, met up with an old flame and circled back in touch, then pulled two more numbers and went on a date with one last night.
You can't get caught up in this stuff. Rejection is going to happen. How you handle it is all that matters.
Girl blows off your text? Whatever. Just tell yourself, "Her loss," and go out and flirt with more girls. It sounds that easy because it is.
[–]Kaquin3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You sound like an angry whiny bitch.
[–]ButterMyBiscuit1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Real Poe's Law situation here. Can't tell if it's a BP troll or just a huge mangina. The first part sounds blatantly trollish, but the second part makes me question it.
Shit post either way.
[–]Luke666808g0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can't tell if troll or actually retarded...
When you approach, and you're clearly a socially awkward weirdo and you don't have good fundamentals, the women that you're approaching need to reject you, especially in a mocking way, to preserve their perceived social status, if they don't humiliate you and actually give a shit about your feelings, it LOWERS their social status, and no woman on earth is willing to take a hit like that, just to save your fucking feelings, they don't care about you.
That's why all guys aren't PUAs, because rejection is never soft or easy or delivered in such a way as to protect your ego, when you're low value, it's ALWAYS brutal.
[–]atsif[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It seems that everyone commenting here didn't realize that the first paragraph was all satire on how women talk about men that approach them. Maybe I should have been more clear. I'm not saying that women should not reject men. Exactly the opposite. Women should be free to reject men just as men should be free to approach women. I thought this would be clear after reading the second paragraph.
[–]ButterMyBiscuit0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol. Bad form.
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