So, I was invited to a party this past Saturday by a female friend of mine. It sounded pretty promising so I decided to go. The weekend before this past one I had struck out pretty hard, so I was looking to make some major improvements. I tried two main new things Saturday night. The first one is a mindset to adapt that made me feel like I was on top of the world. Before I walked into the party, I imagined that I was about to go on set for a TV show that was based on me. How the fuck can anyone stop you with this mindset? If I get rejected by a girl, who the fuck is she? She's an extra. In fact, I'm giving all of these extras a chance to get some character development through the star of the show, me. This had an incredible effect on my energy. I greeted all the guys at the party and was having a genuinely good time.

Eventually girls and alcohol started showing up. I'm taking some shots and go to play beer pong. After winning a game and taking a break, I decided to do the almost instant k-close that NaturalAFC posted about. The first attempt was a bomb. I reached my hand out to a cute girl that I saw and she tentatively grabbed it. I tried to spin her, but she had this "deer in the headlights" look on her face as she spun very awkwardly and slowly. I leaned in to kiss her and she moved her head back laughing nervously. I let her go and moved on.

I went and won another game of BP and started chatting up some girls that were by the wall. I played cocky/funny the whole time. I could tell one of the girls was really into me. I started holding her hand as we chatted about her life interests, which happened to be similar to mine. My best friend finally showed up to the party and I ignored the girl for a minute to greet him. He beckoned me into the kitchen for shots (BP was being played in the garage) and I took the girl by the hand and led her to the kitchen with me. I sat down on a chair by the kitchen and without me even asking, the girl sat on my lap. Things were going well. My friend said come take a shot with me and I told him to give me a second. The girl said "Why aren't you going to take a shot right now?" and I said "Because right now I'm going to kiss you." And I did.

My friend and I take shots but the girl doesn't drink. One of the girl's friends that I had talked to earlier came into the room talking about another party they were going to. It was a house that was known for getting busted. The girl asked if I wanted to come but I told her I was going to pass and got her number. When she left, I went back to talking to people. I saw a cute girl that was walking over to the couch and I tried the almost instant K-close again. I spun her and she laughed and kissed me back when I pulled her in. I should have known something was up though, because she kind of tipped to the side as we kissed. We sat down on the couch as we continued making out and her friend comes up behind us and says "What are you guys doing?" I have a pretty unapologetic personality, so I turn to her friend and say "We were just making out." She acts like she had no idea this was happening and apologizes for interrupting. This girl was about to leave too, so I got her number. Never heard back from her. Probably too drunk.

The party was starting to breakdown into mayhem. I had to prevent a kid that was in the bathroom from throwing up into an air vent instead of the toilet positioned right next to him. The friend that threw the party had someone throw up in her bed. All of a sudden, the girl I first kissed came back to the party. She greets me pretty excitedly. They say they're going to another party and that I should come this time. My friend had left and the party was dying down, so I agreed.

We show up to a rugby party and we sit down. The girl and I had started making plans to hangout again some other day. I saw a girl that I knew from school and greeted her. The girl I came with stayed for maybe ten minutes before her friends started pestering her to take them home (She didn't drink and was DD). I say we'll hangout soon and lean in to kiss her goodbye. She said something along the lines of "We'll do more of that tomorrow." I think she was embarrassed or something. I was a little drunk still, so I just said "We'll do it now too," and she kisses me goodbye.

After she leaves I go back to talking to the girl I knew in high school. She's pretty cute, very Spanish. At some point I try to kiss her but she starts making up reasons for why she shouldn't. She said something like she was sick of not hearing back from guys and asks if I would have kissed her in high school because she was into me then. I played it completely nonchalant, not really caring. By this time, it's almost 4 and people are starting to leave. They are going to another party and she invites me, but I'm ready to go home. She comes close to me and says "I'll see you later," and kisses me goodbye.

So not a bad weekend. Used some new techniques with some good success.