I’ve been talking to this girl since the end of September. We’ve been out 4 times with the most recent date on New Year’s Eve. The week before we started talking on the phone every other night (I said no to some nights because it was getting a little excessive). Throughout the date, we spoke about random things and she revealed to me that she suffers from depression (which wasn’t a red flag to me but I never would have guessed it)

After a day of activities, I was dropping her off to the bus station and she asked me what I’m expecting out of “this”. I told her how I felt and said “I think I like you” (fucked up here) and she went on to say she feels the same and especially felt it two nights ago when we had a fight over the phone. She told me that after the night of the fight, the next morning she woke up feeling obsessive and caught up in what happened and it reminded her of how last time she was in a relationship, she felt the same way and went into spiralling depression.

It’s been 2 weeks and we haven’t spoken since. My gut feeling is she isn’t interested but fuck, I feel like a dumb ass for emotionally investing myself in this girl even though I’ve been going on dates with other girls. A part of me thinks it’s a massive shit test and she wants me to chase her but i don’t know.

What’s my move here?

Thanks