TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

  • Subreddits

      Popular

    • /r/askTRP
    • /r/TheRedPill
    • /r/MarriedRedPill
    • /r/MensRights
    • /r/MGTOW
    • /r/PurplePillDebate
    • /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

      • Other

    • /r/AllPillDebate
    • /r/AlreadyRed
    • /r/altTRP
    • /r/AntiFeminists
    • /r/askFDS
    • /r/askMRP
    • /r/askRPC
    • /r/becomeaman
    • /r/BlackPillScience
    • /r/Chadfish
    • /r/Divorce_Men
    • /r/EverydayMisandry
    • /r/ExRedPill
    • /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
    • /r/FeminismStopsWhen
    • /r/GEOTRP
    • /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
    • /r/MalePsychology
    • /r/Male_Studies
    • /r/MenSupportMen
    • /r/MGTOW2
    • /r/MuslimRedPill
    • /r/newTRP
    • /r/PussyPass
    • /r/PussyPassDenied
    • /r/RedPillBooks
    • /r/RedPillParenting
    • /r/RedPillWives
    • /r/RedPillWomen
    • /r/RedPillWorkplace
    • /r/RPChristians
    • /r/seduction
    • /r/ThankTRP
    • /r/TheRedPillStories
    • /r/trpGAME
    • /r/TRPOffTopic
    • /r/TrueBlackPillMGTOW
    • /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
  • Blogs

      Popular

    • Dalrock
    • Heartiste
    • Illimitable Men
    • Return of Kings
    • Rian Stone
    • The Rational Male
    • Woujo

      • Other

    • Artful Prudence
    • A Voice for Men
    • Alpha Game
    • Black Label Logic
    • Caleb Jones
    • Captain Capitalism
    • Corporate Machiavelli
    • Days of Game
    • Deep Strength
    • Dicipres
    • Donal Graeme
    • Female Misogynist
    • Free Northerner
    • Gaming My Wife
    • Good Looking Loser
    • Hawaiian Libertarian
    • In Mala Fide
    • KillToParty
    • Kill Your Inner Loser
    • Krauser PUA
    • LaidNYC
    • Married Man Sex Life
    • NO MA'AM
    • Omega Virgin Revolt
    • Pook's Mill
    • Random Xpat Rantings
    • Red Pill Theory
    • Red Pill Wifery
    • RedPillDad
    • RedPillDoctor
    • Seasons of Tumult and Discord
    • Sigma Frame
    • The Feminine Woman
    • The Futurist
    • The Masculine Principle
    • The Modern Man
    • The New Modern Man
    • The Obsidian Files
    • The Power Moves
    • The Private Man
    • The Red Pill Room
    • The Red Quest
    • The Rules Revisited
    • The Spearhead
    • Troy Francis
    • Wintery Knight
    • Young Man Red Pill
  • Books
  • Dictionary
  • @TRParchive
  • Please help TheRedArchive stay alive

Pregnancy, sex, and TRP mentality. Am I wrong for being pissed at a lack of sex?

[deleted]

June 2, 2014
6 upvotes
/r/RedPillWomen
Download the post

Want to save the post for offline use on your device? Choose one of the download options below:

PDF TXT EPUB
Share
Share Tweet Reddit Email
Post Information
Title Pregnancy, sex, and TRP mentality. Am I wrong for being pissed at a lack of sex?
Author

[deleted]
Upvotes 6
Comments 12
Date June 2, 2014 10:37 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/273nuy/pregnancy_sex_and_trp_mentality_am_i_wrong_for/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/pregnancy-sex-and-trp-mentality-am-i-wrong-for.165439
https://theredarchive.com/post/165439
Red Pill terms in post
the red pill

Comments

[–]Pfadfinderei 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I finally thought this was a post that shared my issue in having a higher libido than my SO. :P

That said, she's pregnant. She's carrying your child. Be gentle with her. This is your moment to be supportive of her challenge. Don't go about demanding sex, try to seduce her. Don't grope right away, start with something that would relax her and maybe touch her innocently-but-suggestively and see if it tickles her fancy.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

you are absolutely NOT wrong, but do yourself a favor, go on over to TRP and go read the MMSL forums, you need male advice, not female advice

[–]scallopkidEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I keep telling guys this, but there are always more.

[–]BakerofpieEndorsed Contributor 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Blowing my husband is pretty much my favorite thing ever, but if I'm feeling extremely nauseous the mere thought of it makes me gag. As getting vomited on is not one of his kinks, he doesn't even ask for it at those times. She is almost guaranteed to resent the hell out of you if you suddenly, out of the blue start making a bunch of sexual demands right around the time she has become very ill and is having a really hard time with health issues.

Unless you have agreed to some sort of D/s situation and you enjoy causing her significant distress, tread lightly. Seduce her, don't gripe at her. Let her know you understand she's very sick, but that you want to do what you can to keep your sex life on track. A good Captain reads his partner and takes her into account, without letting her run roughshod all over him. Now is not the time to use dread and throw your weight around.

[–]StingrayVC 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What trimester?

[–]sugarcrushEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Is this something new with the pregnancy or was she low libido before as well?

[–]Struggling_Dad -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You can go through my post history if you want. But we haven't been dating for very long. Met her last October. Pregnant by February. 6 months to the day today actually. So...that is typically when the honeymoon period ends. So this is either the real her or the pregnancy. Not sure which.

She has given me blowjobs exactly 4 times - 2 of which were 69. No handjobs. Strictly PiV sex. Blowjobs are my favorite thing but she is really self conscious about the quality of both hand and blowjobs

[–]sugarcrushEndorsed Contributor 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Okay, so I went ahead and took a look. In one of your posts you say the sex used to be "amazing and frequent", so I'm inclined to believe that it stopped because of the issues she is having with the pregnancy. Second, it sounds like she is REALLY sick. Losing 11 lbs is absolutely not normal. But she has a prescription now and is getting better, right? She is still in the first trimester so hopefully the meds + time solves her tiredness and sickness and you can get back to (semi)normal. I know some women actually get super horny during mid pregnancy so cross your fingers and hope for that :)

For the BJs, once she is less ill and more interested in sex, I would recommend starting by asking for them just as foreplay. No pressure on her finishing you or anything, just do it for a couple minutes and then have sex like normal. While she is doing it and afterwards make a big deal about how good it felt and how much you enjoyed it. That should help build her confidence and make her more willing in the future.

[–]StingrayVC 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Wow. 11 pounds. If she is that sick, it's going to be hard for her for a while. I got quite sick during my pregnancies and just brushing my teeth was difficult. Over time this will hopefully fade.

Yes, sex is important. Very and she needs to know that, but given how sick she's been (and hopefully the meds are helping) give her some time.

Having said that, I don't recommend asking for sex, ever. Asking is a big turn off and it will likely just exacerbate your situation. Maintain your dominance. Help her through feeling so crummy. Flirt with her when she's feeling better. Touch her a lot and make it known you want her. I can't say whether or not she'll respond because hormones are a witch. But I do know that asking her will likely annoy her and turn her off even more.

[–]sugarcrushEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh yeah, good point on the asking! I worded that badly... Don't just straight up ask :P do what stingray said!

[–]Struggling_Dad 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey gals, I thought I posted this on the /r/asktrp sub. My bad. It won't let me post on TRP

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[permanently deleted]

Browse all authors
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter