I'm a guy and I've recently had a few in depth conversations with my older sister (26) and some of her friends (all mid-20s). Basically my sister hasn't been in a serious LTR but has casually dated a few guys during college and in the last couple years. She's says she's ready to settle down and eventually have a baby in 3-5 years. I'd say she's above average lookswise and her friends tell me that she gets a decent amount of attention from guys but that she doesn't sleep around (I really don't know how accurate that last point is, but my friends have confirmed that they don't get the "easy" vibe from her). I know specifically that she had been hooking up with a guy about 4 months ago and she realized that he wasn't respecting her so she cut off ties and hasn't spoke to him since. After that situation, she decided against any more short term dating.

Personally I find TRP philosophies interesting and I've been lurking in TRP for almost a year and have found RPW to offer a different perspective for women. I tried offering some advice to my sister, but I'm a recent college grad and firmly in the hooking up stage of my life so I don't think I've been any help in the "serious advice" category.

TRP philosophy seems to find women with previous sexual partners as devalued, but is there a way to regain value and pique the interest of high value men? How do chicks move out of the stage of "casual dating" to where a guy would want to LTR/settle down with them?