Ladies, how to lose the feeling of entitlement?

Washiface · 2015-09-30T17:05:12+00:00

I'm confused as OP claims to be a guy in a post he made in TRP.

StingrayVC · 2015-09-30T12:01:48+00:00

You work on feeling gratitude. You look around you, all the time, and you pay attention to what people are doing. You see what they are doing for you and doing for others.

And you thank them for it.

If you have an SO, you pay particular attention to finding those things he does for your relationship and for you that you don't even know about.

And then you thank him for it.

[deleted] · 2015-09-30T14:22:59+00:00

Head on over to trp and tell them you're a woman looking to lose the mentality of entitlement. They'll help you out! In all seriousness though, from my experience, I will tell you that I never realized just how much my attitude was oppressing my husband and how much I controlled the relationship. I never really realized how much of the relationship is ME I made every decision and my husband told me it was honestly easier for him to go along with it then for us to fight.

This relationship is not all you and the world is not all you. I honestly don't understand why men put up with women, I suppose it's all initially for sex although that's a poor long term game.

Be grateful for him, and what he does. Notice what he does, go out of your way to notice everything and appreciate it. You know that you're not the only one in the relationship and if you're anything like I was, you're probably being a controlling oppressive bitch (no offense to you personally). Please read The Surrenderd Wife and although I was joking in the beginning, go to trp and mrp and read what the man's side of the story. I'm sure you'll see yourself in a lot of what they complain about and try to fix. I know I did.

Washiface · 2015-09-30T11:34:36+00:00

How do you feel entitled? What do you feel entitled to?

TempestTcup · 2015-09-30T16:48:35+00:00

I meditate a lot. When I meditate, I try to look at myself from an outside perspective and sort of realize that I'm just a tiny piece in a huge puzzle. Asking someone to do the dishes NOW... big picture is the stupidest thing to get annoyed over. Demanding that someone do x, y, or z for you because you NEED it. That is very small thinking. I take my 20-30 minutes a day and reflect on how things just don't matter in the long run. Will I care next month that my car isn't washed today? No. Will I remember next year how this person was 20 minutes late to a meeting? No. I think it is about putting things into context. We can generally get wrapped up into our own head that we forget how small we really are in the world.

Title	Ladies, how to lose the feeling of entitlement?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	17
Comments	18
Date	September 30, 2015 9:29 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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