How long is too long to wait on a girl for sex or even a BJ?

Bkblul · 2017-09-18T10:59:47+00:00

To me it sounds like shes just not that into you?

You're in her frame when you say "She flat out told me the other day that she wants to take things slow because she's just trying to protect herself"

You're playing the game by her rules.

Some would escalate hard and apply some sort of dread if she still says no (I trust you but you don't trust me?... I'm sure someone else can come up with something good). If you go this route then what's the worst that can happen, you still won't have sex?

Others would've lost interest and moved on. To be honest you should already be looking elsewhere, you aren't locked down.

I'm sure if the 'right' guy came along she would have her panties around her ankles in no time. Hence why I think she's just not that into you.

quicklogaccount · 2017-09-18T11:44:42+00:00

You know you. You weren't attractive enough to cause her to drive over her anxieties and insecurities, so to lay her you'll have to both convince her to overcome them and be comforting to minimize them.

I'd say hit it if you believe you clicked well, but it seems you're just feeling like you're taking too long to get laid, so just find chicks elsewhere and let this one reach out to you and friendzone herself if she feels like it.

party_dragon · 2017-09-18T10:49:10+00:00

Please dump her. You're clearly not the right person for her, and she for you.

If she was right for you, you'd be willing to wait for her for as long as necessary, and she'd be willing to do it with you when you wanted to.

McVaghunter · 2017-09-18T11:40:26+00:00

I never, under any circumstances, continue with a girl if we don't fuck on the 3rd date. I prefer doing it on the 3rd night. First night we go out without me paying anything, second night I pay for something simple in a café-bar but I don't suggest going home after, and the third night we spend it at home, we don't go anywhere else. I don't like girls that fuck in the first or second date because these have an enormous n-count and lots of STDs, and are usually not reliable plating material. I like my plates reliable.

Please note that the reason I don't suggest going home on the second night is because later that night I have the 3rd date with the girl from the previous night... I try to always meet two girls per day, one I go out with and one I fuck later. I doesn't take a lot of time because I don't spend much time cuddling after sex or chitchatting when out.

Title	How long is too long to wait on a girl for sex or even a BJ?
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Date	September 18, 2017 10:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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