[21M] How do I stop being a pussy and overcome fear?

900_year_old_vampire · 2017-06-14T21:03:38+00:00

you live and you learn. this game takes time and experience to get comfortable with and good at, no way around it

TheMensRealm · 2017-06-14T21:08:48+00:00

Fear is a natural response to unfamiliar situations. You're not special because you are afraid of sexual situations with women.

My advice to you is simple: Keep going. Keep putting yourself in new, uncomfortable situations. There's plenty of threads and advice on the sidebars about how to act in such situations. Use that information and experience and eventually you will surpass your fears.

[deleted] · 2017-06-14T21:10:52+00:00

the good news is, the first step to overcoming fear and being a pussy is to admit it to yourself (which you achieved). good for you on looking into it and finding TRP. you are on the path. keep reading. keep trying. dont get discouraged. as you understand more concepts and see results, you will be utterly surprised. good things are on the horizon.

wish i would have discovered this shit when i was your age (now in my 30's and seeing my problem with women has been me). consider yourself lucky and a step ahead of the rest.

Coach-Red-Pill · 2017-06-14T21:25:48+00:00

Practice. Practice. Practice. The more you do something, the more your insecurities will melt away. Grit your teeth and dive in.

Always be pushing yourself. And never be afraid of failure. If you keep pushing yourself, and never avoid failure, you'll be surprised how quickly your fear vanishes, and you come into your own.

Best of luck.

bminuscplus · 2017-06-14T21:26:24+00:00

Rinse and repeat.

Every next time you will be a little less afraid until you realise you're not afraid anymore.

Title	[21M] How do I stop being a pussy and overcome fear?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	June 14, 2017 9:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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