Single Mothers

wolfy222 · 2017-06-12T21:35:49+00:00

What about the single women in their 20's that literally spent almost every moment on their smartphones and social media, constantly taking selfies and updating their status every chance they get for validation and can't even carry on a conversation anymore?

destroying-reality · 2017-06-12T17:55:50+00:00

I like that she's almost settled down by virtue of the fact that she has a kid

nastynickdr · 2017-06-12T19:04:42+00:00

Have your standards. Not all girls are party-club-hopping-entitled-sluts. There are LTR material girls out there, but you have to dig. Meet them, plate them, see if they meet your criteria for a LTR, if not, you walk, or keep her as a plate until it breaks. Yeah most western women nowadays are not LTR material, thats just the way things are, but that doesnt mean you have to commit to a party slut/single mom.

Single moms are NOT worth the risk, just read up stories about them. She´ll play good to get you on her hook. They are looking for baby daddy provider, lots of baggage, the kids father constantly in her life which creates drama, and theres the possibility of you having to pay child support for a kid thats not yours. Plate a single mom? Sure, why not, as long as you always wrap it up. Commit to one? Fuck no.

TryhardPantiesON · 2017-06-12T16:00:43+00:00

I completely understand you OP.

I am currently in my mid 20s but since i was in high school i noticed something weird with my generation, most girls seem to be narcisistic, materialistic, ego driven whores... since i was 18 years old i started to date older women, 5 years, 10 years even 20 years older than me, and they all seemed more grounded, women whom you can have conversations, they don't spend hours in their phones posting pictures, they do not play stupid mind games, etc. The dating phase with a more mature woman just seems more relaxed, it is almost effortless when there is sexual attraction between the two.

Here is an interesting video.

exit_sandman · 2017-06-12T19:08:32+00:00

DUDE. Don't.

The difference I noticed however was this woman had her shit together.

The difference is that, if she feels just a shred of responsibility towards her child, she literally has to. She doesn't have a fucking choice. She can't screw around or have fun.

And the latter part also means YOU. Yes, you personally.

For her, you aren't really fun. Maybe a bit, but you are the sort of fun that'll take a backseat behind her kid and her, even if she's otherwise a great person (and make no mistake, most single moms aren't). And very likely you aren't just fun, but a potential accessory for her to make her life more convenient - so be prepared to bleed out of your nose for the kid one way or another.

Apart from this: who says that the image of the mature and reasonable woman she projects isn't just windowdressing? Don't forget that her odds of finding a partner are worse than they have been when she was without kids, and she's incentivized to look like a catch.

Aah, you know what? Simply read this.

motorku531 · 2017-06-12T20:02:55+00:00

single mother

has shit together

pick one

Title	Single Mothers
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Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	June 12, 2017 2:08 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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