what is the difference between being persistent and needy?

Kalidane · 2017-02-07T06:10:43+00:00

It contradicts nothing.

When you are of value, you see yourself as being of value. You are the prize.

Faking it will result in incongruence which girls sniff out pretty quickly.

badchad_isglad · 2017-02-07T06:53:45+00:00

Six pack abs, a great haircut, and a carefree attitude.

oldredder · 2017-02-07T10:00:45+00:00

Looks the same to women. Women ignore men who look not to have options. Women chase the men who tell them to fuck off but are seen with other hot women.

banllama · 2017-02-07T16:37:20+00:00

The needy mindset:

I am desperate. I need this to be happy. I WANT THIS SO BADLY I WILL DO ANYTHING. If I do not get this, I will be extremely upset and angry

The persistent mindset

I have a goal. I will be happy if I meet the goal but I will also be content if I do not. The goal will not make or break me. I will do everything in my power to meet the goal.

The needy person and the persistent person can actually do the exact same thing and say the exact same words but everything will be so much different. The body language, the tone of voice, the subtle human communicators will be different. People pick up on these. They are very obvious.

Title	what is the difference between being persistent and needy?
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Date	February 7, 2017 6:04 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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