What's up brothers. It's summertime, and that means parties, kickbacks, shindigs, barn raises, and ragers aplenty. Obviously as Red Pillers you should be out there being social and meeting people. Instead, I'm here to talk about the benefits of hosting your own parties. If you have trouble with day game, picking up girls in clubs and bars, or using Tinder and online dating, Party Host game could be the answer to your prayers.

Personally, this is my favorite kind of "game" to run. I use quotes because this isn't so much gaming girls as it is displaying your SMV to full advantage and letting it do the work for you. This requires your SMV to already be high. You should already be at the gym regularly, dressing well, etc. The purpose of the party (besides having a kickass time) is to showcase yourself in favorable light. For example, we all know girls love musicians, but everyone hates the douche that brings his guitar to a house party. Party Host game is about showing off your best qualities in a way that isn't forced or contrived.

Hosting a party is a lot of work, but the benefits greatly outweigh the costs. For me, hosting a party GUARANTEES a hookup that night along with several numbers/leads.

BASIC REQUIREMENTS:

  1. A decent place. Obviously we don't all live in mansions, but you're not impressing anyone throwing parties out your mom's basement. Roommates aren't a problem as long as they're not shitty.

  2. Good SMV. Be fit. Be clean. Be well dressed and well read etc. Obvious shit. The idea isn't to lie to girls, it's to show that you're hot shit.

  3. Friends. Sorry kids, you're gonna need a fairly large social circle to pull this off. Real life friends too don't be trying to host a Reddit meetup. You're best bet is to chat up people at the events you're already going to.

PUTTING IT TOGETHER:

Once you have the basic shit down, you can start hosting stuff. Ideally you want 20 to 30 people attending, which means inviting about 50 people or inviting people who bring friends. Any smaller and you get a quieter vibe that isn't as conducive to picking up girls. Any bigger and things start getting out of your control, potential for bad shit increases, more expensive to host plus more cleanup, etc. Send invites a week in advance. Earlier and people will forget, later and people will already have plans.

Make sure your place is SPOTLESS. Have some fucking pride you have guests coming! That means no dirty dishes in the sink, empty trashcans, no dirty laundry, a made bed with clean sheets, and the place is dusted and vacuumed. Open the windows and air out the place. People will notice. I always get compliments that my place always smells so fresh and so clean clean, especially compared to the funk that most houses cultivate. Put away all your embarrassing shit too. You best believe my D&D rulebooks and comics get locked away when I have people over.

Refreshments are necessary. A bottle or two of liquor and a cooler/fridge full of beer at minimum. And of course you should be inviting cool people who will bring drinks too. Some light snacks, chips/dip, etc goes over very well. I also set up a hookah in the corner which inevitably becomes a hangout spot. Add some speakers and music and you are good to go.

EXAMPLE:

I throw a party about once a month, usually for an event or holiday. (This month was 4th of July) Don't even bother trying to do it more often.

People enter, the house is spotless. Fresh new music is playing off the sound system (cue the "omg can I get the playlist?"). I'm an artist and I have original paintings hanging on the walls just waiting to be a background for some shitty selfie, along with all the curios and decor I've picked up while traveling. Homemade food is waiting on the table, usually some trendy recipe I found online. Let me tell you, nothing gets a girl wet like good home-cooked food. (I was grilling up a storm on the 4th of July and I had girls literally eating the meat out of my hand). People start laughing, drinking, and having a good time, and you're at the center of it all.

The entire night is one demonstration of your social proof and exceedingly good taste. Hosting a party is one of the few times where girls give me their numbers without me even asking. I almost always end up fucking a girl during or after the party. It's so easy when it's your own house/apartment! When a girl asks you for a tour or to see your room you know it's on, or I invite her to "come see my sketchbook". It's playing on easy mode. The only time I haven't scored was when two girls both tried to stay at my house to "help clean up" and I had no idea how to handle the situation. #humblebrag

BENEFITS

  1. Frame! Nothing makes holding frame easier than being in your own house. These fuckers are eating your food, drinking your brew, and sitting on your couch. YOU OWN THEM. God fucking damn it is your house and you demand respect! People naturally defer to the host and the home advantage will boost your comfort and thus confidence.

  2. Ease of hookup. No need to worry about moving locations or rides or anything. Like I said earlier it's almost impossible not to close when your bed is 20 feet away.

  3. A good fucking time! As long as you have some solid regulars attending you're gonna have a good time regardless. Dat outcome independence yo.

  4. Invites. You know who gets invites to parties? People that host parties. I always have options for the weekend and people are always trying to get invited to my next event.

  5. SMV boost. Not only do you get a boost for being a cool guy who hosts cool events. On top of that all your positive traits will already be demonstrated without you even having to mention shit or qualify. We don't brag about working out because one look at you shows that you're fit. Likewise I don't have to brag about my cooking or my artwork because it's already out there.

Ironically this post is exactly about how to be a tryhard jackoff but no one is supposed to KNOW that. All girls care about is that it seems easy. That it actually takes work is irrelevant.

CONS

  1. Money. You're gonna be spending at least $100. Potentially a lot more. Not a fortune but still substantial.

But on the other hand we all have nights where we've spent that much at the club or bar, had a terrible time, and gotten jack shit at the end of the night. I like this much better.

  1. It takes work. I'm tired just writing this post, let alone actually setting up and cleaning afterwards. And this isn't counting the work that goes into getting a high enough SMV for this to be worthwhile.

  2. Plates know where you live.

IN CONCLUSION

When I was BP the only times I ever got girls was when I was hosting a party because I was unconsciously putting my best foot forward + not giving a fuck about them since I had a party to host. Now that I know what I'm doing, I can throw one party and be set with hookups for weeks. If I'm ever in a slump it's a good way to shake things up. If you associate with cool people they will bring cool girls, which are a nice change from the usual club sloots. A party you host is a great way to close on a girl you've been chasing or meet someone totally new, and the best part is that a worst case scenario is a party! Literally a win-win impossible to fuck up.

A lot of this shit seems obvious but hosting a party is a much easier way to meet girls than a bar or club. Hopefully you guys got something out of this and once again thanks for reading!