Girlfriend is mad at me but still investing .

FrameWalker · 2016-11-15T16:19:04+00:00

Don't force her to be your mother knucklehead. Spend more time at your own place. Don't cohabitate unless you're getting married. Oh wait yourennever getting married right?

McCoop_ · 2016-11-15T16:13:08+00:00

Sounds like she resents you. She likes you enough to put in some effort, but she has made it clear that she feels she is not getting equal exchange. It's possible you have gotten lazy and diminished in SMV. I broke up with my girlfriend when I found that I wasn't attracted to her enough to deal with her problem areas any more.

Take some time to think about the situation. Are there certain things she does that you take for granted? Does she have objectively valid reasons to expect more from you? If you think she is overreaching hold your ground. If you realise you are being unreasonable then adjust your behaviour. You'll have to be the judge since it is very difficult to present unbiased evidence when asking for advice.

redhazardlights · 2016-11-15T16:02:14+00:00

Dude, she feels overwhelmed by something, who knows what? Sickness, money problems, her period, everything. She is expecting you to step up and help her because she thinks you two are "in it together" or at least that at this point you should be in it together. Her cooking and cleaning etc for you is her attempting to demonstrate the ways she is "in it together" with you. She sees your money-mindness as a lack of generosity generally, which makes her annoyed with you. She feels that she is doing her part (cooking, cleaning, etc, even if she's not got a great attitude, she's still doing it, okay? This is how she sees it) but you are not, because your part as the man is helping her with money. I don't know, man. I think you should just give her $50. I mean, if she's generally a good woman, willing to do the feminine things and you want her to do feminine things, man up and give her a bit toward the house that you admitted you've been sharing.

Title	Girlfriend is mad at me but still investing .
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Date	November 15, 2016 2:43 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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