Why do women pretend to be attracted to beta qualities?

JackGetsIt · 2016-06-25T05:12:08+00:00

The ultimate fantasy for a women is an alpha top 20% man who acts beta for her and her alone. Logistically this is a fantasy for most women. Which is why many women are so easy too plate. If you convince them you are the top 20% then they will basically delude themselves into thinking that you are 'there's alone' even if reality doesn't fit the narrative.

RatBastardJones · 2016-06-25T13:35:16+00:00

That is not a lie at all. That's true for women, particularly in the context of LTRs.

be with someone who won't stay mad at you

That should be self-explanatory. Chicks don't like guys who pout and drag on fights and other nonsense. Women live in the moment, and if you make her moments shitty for an extended period of time, it does not work out for you unless you have a really shitty broken chick. Not a lie.

who can't stand not talking to you

Again, true for women, and they are reading it as an extension of the first statement. They don't want you dragging shit on after they've had a tantrum. And in the case of billy beta, if he's talking, she's winning. Once again, not a lie. Women feel that way.

and who's afraid of losing you.

Well, that will dry a girl up, but in this case, paired with those other two statements, I think it might be projection. Women know how they themselves feel when they have a high value guy. I'm not sure if you'd still call that a lie, but if you do, now you know why women would like something like that. They aren't pretending, but they only understand their own viewpoint, and that is how they feel when they have a high value guy.

TheRedStoic · 2016-06-25T10:14:19+00:00

Tldr/Delusion and solipsism.

That really boils it down.

Longer version:

Think everyone else here pretty much covered that.

Albacorewing · 2016-06-25T12:46:27+00:00

Beta guys tend to make more money and are more stable financially. Women go for beta guys when their looks are fading and when there is no more attention from Chad T.C. They then move on to the beta guy, but the beta guy is strictly second-best in the woman's eyes.

introvertp · 2016-06-25T18:16:07+00:00

When a woman is attracted to you you can do/say basically anything.

Beta behavior is not set in stone; it's about the way it's framed. I can reply to a "wyd?" text with "just home jacking off" to a girl that is attracted to me and get a whitty/flirty response. In contrast a low SMV person doing this will come off as a creep or 'why is he so weird?'.

From time to time I'll send/say to girls "Just woke up and you're all that's on my mind. Wow!" or "I just realized you're really important to me" or something ~~beta~~ along those lines and it will absolutely melt them or leaving them looking like Puss.

Mister-guy · 2016-06-25T20:09:36+00:00

I think the sub context of this photo is, "Be with a dude with a $10,000 watch and tattoos".

ecosci · 2016-06-25T20:18:25+00:00

Society wants to keep telling us lies so they can exploit betas for cash and resources but it will end very soon so get all the advice you can because the state will figure out why all the betas didnt wait around to wife up all the sluts who rode the cc and apply stricter rules when dealing with women men arent stupid we evolve and with technology things are going to change but its too late the damage has been done to good men and the younger guys are taking note so remember she only wants betas for his bux only and alphas for well you know the rest awalt.

Title	Why do women pretend to be attracted to beta qualities?
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Date	June 25, 2016 4:43 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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