Can't fuck my new girl

penguin_says_slide · 2015-11-01T23:22:36+00:00

I care so much about pleasing her

Nothing to do with masturbation or NoFap. You're a young man(persumably), you're supposed to get it up several times in a day. It's Performance Anxiety. Cure is simple : don't give a fuck about pleasing her. Let go of your massive ego and the person that you've built.

When you're comfortable standing in front of her with a flaccid cock when she's so horny she could break you in half...that's when you'll start to feel blood rush down there.

stickfiguresk · 2015-11-02T00:03:54+00:00

The sensation isn't high enough, and you're probably self conscious, or you just don't want to fuck her.

Fixable solutions: change the setting and the pretext. Switch rooms, if you're fucking in the house you just spent 4 hours cleaning and your mom just visited, or her room is pink and full of pictures of kids, it'd be understandable for you to have performance issues.

Do less foreplay. Be selfish, try dirty talk("suck that fat dick, bitch!"). Change your mood.

Consider ditching the condom.

Unfixable issues without nexting: She's loose, she's fat, she's annoying--you're generally unattracted to her.

It's probably a combination of things, so try relieving one or two, and see how it goes.

JeffsRP · 2015-11-01T23:07:57+00:00

Have you read sex god method by Daniel Rose?

Google it, there's a pdf.

You need to get out of your head. You need to immerse yourself.

Also, meditation will help you get used to living in the moment.

ispeaknot · 2015-11-02T00:08:48+00:00

tease the shit out of her. make her beg. make her beg explicitly for what she wants. dont please her, let her grind herself however far she gets on your cock...without giving a shit if she pops or not. its weird but a chick can be pleased by JUST giving a blowjob. if you let her hamster herself into being sexed up, she will oblige.

fnordsnord · 2015-11-02T00:44:53+00:00

Okay - first: don't panic. Everybody has hydraulic failure sooner or later. In mah yoot I could drive an eight inch iron spike through four inches of kiln dried north american white oak with no problem. So you might imagine, the first time it came up was quite the surprise for me!

While low-fap is probably a good idea, porn-free is actually what you want to look into. In young guys, high-speed internet video porn is the single biggest cause of erectile dysfunction I know of. I'm not going into the details here because there have been very few well-grounded studies, but if you google "This Is Your Brain On Porn" you'll be able to read TONS of personal stories that will sound eerily familiar. The "executive summary," though, is this: How can you appreciate the HB7 underneath you when you've been jerkin' it all week to HB9's? Your standards are artificially high. Further, your instincts don't know you're jerkin' it. You watch those images and jerk it, your hindbrain thinks you've been banging HB9's twice a day for a week. Why should it bother to get it up for an HB 7? Google "porn induced erectile dysfunction" for details.

Once we're past that, under stand that ANYTHING that lowers your blood pressure is bad for boners. Alcohol? Bad for boners. They don't call it "whiskey dick" for nothing. Weed? Bad for boners. Tobacco? Bad for boners. Bad cardio fitness? Bad for boners.

prodigy2throw · 2015-11-02T01:10:16+00:00

Is she hot?

rpisnotpua · 2015-11-02T04:53:10+00:00

Too much pressure on yourself. Give up and don't come. Have another date. Fuck. If you don't come, don't worry about it. You will eventually.

Girls love when you come, but I've never lost a plate [solely] due to my inability to ejaculate.

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Date	November 1, 2015 10:54 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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