The word slut is not only the most over-used word in the lingo of gender relationships but more importantly it's the most mis-used. It's been distorted and used by extremists on both sides to try and prove a point, and somewhere along the way the word completely lost its meaning.

--A slut is not about sex, but a slut bases her entire life and value around it. This is what distinguishes them as sluts. They center their lives and decisions and relationships around sex. Everything they do, every action they take is based around being a slut or trying to hide how slutty they are. They're narcissists at heart and thus the person you're dealing with is never real: they're either giving you the facade or lying about having one.

--Sluts make poor decisions. Sluts are unable to control their childish indulgences and capriciousness--their urges--like adults, and are thus unable to forge adult relationships. They're guided and lead by their vaginas and can't say no once they've been stimulated. This makes them bad choices for dating and marriage because we as humans are always stimulated, especially if we're good looking or successful.

--Sluts jump from man to man because their value is tied to their vaginas like other women but their self-esteem and self-worth are also thrown in. The second they don't get what they want, like kids---or cats(that whole cat/dog metaphor is so flawless)---they will jump to someone who will. No matter how large your sexual appetite, women's will always be higher. You can never truly sate it 100%. Sluts will forever search for that 100% because again, sex is the beginning and end of their worth and esteem.

--Sluts have value. They are good for practice. They are good to have as friends(as long as you don't count on them for a ride because they will leave you the second they have a chance for sex.). They are good conversation in a group because they get other girls going. They are good wingmen. They're just not dating material.

There has been a huge blur in the line between sexy and slutty and each day the line gets closer to its inevitable demise. It is your job as men to create that line and stick to it.

If a woman wants to be a slut that is her choice. If she wants to fuck every dude on earth and have no shame about it that's her choice.

And if you don't ever want to respect her, prize her, cherish her, or marry her, not only is that YOUR choice, but is it one that is very much encouraged.