gf getting distant, Nc?

[deleted] · 2015-10-08T16:16:36+00:00

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bertmaklinFBI · 2015-10-08T16:25:50+00:00

You are incredibly needy.

You say your girlfriend is stressed yet you are adding to thay by requiring constant attention like a chick. She wants to date a guy, not a woman. The pullback you are sensing is her "trying out" leaving you/being broken up with you. The ending: she is going to find out not having you in her life is a lot easier and stress free.

You need to invest in yourself and get some hobbies. No contact does not mean to not text for a day and then send a needy text message. Let her initiate contact with you.

Glennus626 · 2015-10-08T16:33:45+00:00

"I just want her to have the same attraction she had for me"

what was she? 16? 15? Ya, attention spans and fad mentality at that age are pretty prevalent. YOU are responsible for generating the "attraction" that you're talking about, not her. That's not even broaching the subject of AP classes in h.s. can be pretty demanding, especially if you're trying to get into a decent school afterwards, WITHOUT having a needy beta bitch blow up your phone whining about you not texting enough.

Monitoring her texts, being controlling and demanding? What would you have done if some girl did that to you during one of the most crucial times of your academic career? Do her a favor and play it cool for a while so she doesn't spend her life working at walmart because her teen crush dumped her when she had a full AP courseload.

Cum_on_doorknob · 2015-10-08T17:22:05+00:00

I hope this girl dumps you so you can actually learn something. You're a controlling, needy, loser. You can't control a woman, you can only control yourself. Be your best self and she will want you. Are you working on getting to 10% body fat or less? Are you working hard to deadlift twice your body weight? Are you working hard to have an awesome career? Start focusing on that, then she will want you. But then so will a lot of other girls.

Johnny10toes · 2015-10-08T17:27:42+00:00

You check her clothes? Troll post.

Arcturus_ · 2015-10-08T17:18:43+00:00

You needy motherfucker.

[deleted] · 2015-10-08T16:40:48+00:00

Oneitus. Time to own your balls and get some women, dude. Why the hell you trying to have a LTR at 20 is beyond me. Especially with a chick that is 17 and about to go to college and get fucked by the football team.

FrameWalker · 2015-10-08T16:45:42+00:00

Very very needy. I spin plates so most of my texting is logistics. A week of silence is normal. Even when I was in an LTR and needy as he'll I texted every third day or so.

Get to a place you have no fear of losing any girl. No need for them to validate you and stroke your ego. For me spinning plates gets me closer. So does pursuing my own amusement and goals.

psyflux · 2015-10-08T17:22:00+00:00

every morning she's required to send me a pic of her outfit
I check all her text and make sure she isn't talking to anyone

The good news is you can look forward to her hating you like an overbearing father.

I feel like I'm messing it up some how

Trying to lock down a girl who's about to get in line for the CC, that's how.

Title	gf getting distant, Nc?
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Date	October 8, 2015 3:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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