Women's fantasies are killing me in the bedroom.

stickfiguresk · 2015-10-04T21:07:17+00:00

It'd be weird if they didn't want that. Try being 100% selfish in bed a few times. D in her mouth, d in her pussy, cum as fast as possible, tell her she came, and go to sleep. Don't ask questions, don't do her any favors. Even if you decide its not for you, it'll give you some perspective. Think of it as the paleo for fucking. Fuck like a cave man.

Read no more mr. Nice guy.

648262 · 2015-10-04T21:28:41+00:00

In BDSM groups they focus a bit on the "come down" after the session is over. The sub has often been experiencing a whole deal of humiliation and dehumanizing acts. So in order to have a somewhat normal relationship in day-to-day activities the idea is to talk about the experience, get things out in the open and even the playing field by making everyone understand it was a game.

You're not the sub in this context, but I believe you actually have the need to calm down a bit after smacking your girl(s) around in bed.

Cuddle. Not for them, but for you. Well, maybe for the both of you.

Probably best not to say why you guys are cuddling though. It's nice to keep the power in play.

drallcom3 · 2015-10-04T21:25:34+00:00

It's natural for women to want to be dominated in the bedroom to various degrees. Don't feel bad about it. It's just their nature and it's your nature to want to protect them.

ThrowingMyslfOutther · 2015-10-04T23:58:48+00:00

Try choosing unbroken women.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-10-05T02:28:20+00:00

Get used to it; that's what they like.

I ask girls what their secret greasy fantasy is, and typically, I get two things:

Sex with another girl.
"Tie me up".

That second one can me anything from just tie her up, caress her and keep her from coming until I say so, to rough sex to (once) "beat the shit out of me". (Be VERY careful with that last one).

So you can let your FEELZ keep you from getting laid or you can give the customer what she wants.

wehadtosaydickety · 2015-10-05T01:39:54+00:00

Girls like that suck at sex. They use the rape fantasy as an excuse to be dead fish. Next

dr_warlock · 2015-10-04T23:37:16+00:00

Have a safe word that you both agree on (forever). Problem solved. Don't talk about it for a few days then just go for it until you hear that word. When you hear that word, do not have sex for the rest of that day. This way she gets to put up her fake resistance and feel you over power and ravage her 'against her will'.

Title	Women's fantasies are killing me in the bedroom.
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Date	October 4, 2015 8:04 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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