Girl with N count close to 20, she is 24, father abandoned her at a young age and she drinks often. Is it even worth trying?

fnordsnord · 2015-09-27T23:52:18+00:00

Disclaimer: I don't know you. I don't know the girl. I certainly don't know the ex.

But shooting from the hip: you are already too emotionally invested in this girl to "plate." Her. By definition, a plate is a woman who, while you might be friendly toward her, you have no emotional investment in, and would be unharmed if she slapped you across the face, yelled "you pig," and walked away, never to speak to you again.

That sound like you? Didn't think so.

With this girl, it will be LTR or nothing for you.

And she's a poor prospect. Daddy issues. Sexualized too young. Over sexualized. Ex still around.

You can do better than this.

My take: do a fade and look for a healthier relationship.

abdada · 2015-09-27T23:54:24+00:00

How much do you like the idea of 18 years of 35% of your paycheck going to her and you not getting anything out of it?

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH · 2015-09-27T23:57:13+00:00

If you don't have the mentality to walk away from her at any given moment, you have already lost.

NazoXIII · 2015-09-28T00:12:32+00:00

In the title alone you just noted a few Red Flags that are absolute deal breakers.

No!

Fwb that if you want a piece but anything more is more effort that it's worth.

Title	Girl with N count close to 20, she is 24, father abandoned her at a young age and she drinks often. Is it even worth trying?
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Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	September 27, 2015 11:39 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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