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Girl in a 1,5 year LTR invites me to her place to watch movies, advice?

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March 5, 2015
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Title Girl in a 1,5 year LTR invites me to her place to watch movies, advice?
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[deleted]
Upvotes 1
Comments 18
Date March 5, 2015 4:58 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2xzp8y/girl_in_a_15_year_ltr_invites_me_to_her_place_to/
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[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang12 points13 points14 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"nah I don't wanna, rumours will start about us lol"

If you're not fucking her at least have fun launching her hamster into outer space.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Push-pull

[–]Red-Zen 8 points8 points8 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Say no. Fucking an attached women can cause all sorts of problems. You have no idea what can happen. Her boyfriend can come after you (or any of his friends can), she can cry rape (or any of her family can). Its just not worth it.

[–]banica240 points1 point2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (0 children) | Copy Link

agreed

[–]SnugglySadist7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You are graduating... why the fuck would you care about the consequences? High school seems important now, but it really is not.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]Overzealous_BlackGuy6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The fact that youre graduating proves it even more that she wants "something". Youre both leaving soon. I wont argue that prom isnt important to you, because its everything when youre in highschool. But i forgot about that shit completely.

[–]intelcorei51 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're worried about

talk to hurt my social standing & prom date possibility

then you're not going to get anywhere with her (or a prom date) anyway. You have no abundance mentality.

Even better, get caught doing it and be completely unapologetic and unrepentant. "Yeah, I did. What's up?"

Go. Watch. Cuddle. Seduce.

[–]kingofpoplives4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She's tying to cheat with you. If you don't want to do that, then don't go to her house.

[–]clear-sight2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You've got a whole future ahead of you, which I'm sure will be great and full of new things. You won't even remember this girl's name in 10 years. By then you would have had enough chicks. Forget this bitch if you sense problems.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I have a question regarding "watching a movie at her place".

Is that a code-of-the-hamster for "Come watch a movie with me and if you are alpha enough we will have sex."?

I'm asking this because a female friend of mine said that to me 3~4 times, but I declined everytime.

Is it a code for that? Like "come to my place we gonna make cookies"?

[–]1TopTRP4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's one of two things.

1) You give her tingles.

If this is the case, (especially if she has a BF like OPs story), she's inviting you over to watch a movie because that gives her plausible deniability, but also she knows that sex can happen. She's creating excitement for herself, but hamstering it as being completely innocent.

"We were just watching a movie! I don't know it just happened!"

2) You don't give her tingles.

You're a beta-orbiter and being called over to be her emotional dumpster.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well it's 1) I guess.

[–]kingofpoplives2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes "watching a movie" is the standard code for hooking up.

[–]TheGillos1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

She has a boyfriend, so if you bang it's HER who will need to worry about social shit. Just let her know you're very discrete and would never kiss and tell. Bonus points if you can pull off some hippy "free love" or we're just animals and monogamy isn't natural stuff.

[–][deleted] 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]TheGillos0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The hippy's had that too.

Groovy, haha.

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