How do you turn Duty Sex into fun sex?

2014-12-06T20:11:32+00:00

There are many women out there that actually want to have sex with you; why stay with one that doesn't

fnordsnord · 2014-12-06T20:17:19+00:00

My first thought?

"This is no fun. I'll go find someone who wants this," and then leave.

But that would be butthurt.

Second impulse. Stop and leave. Saying nothing.

Still seems butthurt, but less.

Okay - got it.

You CAN'T fix Duty Sex during the duty sex. You have to re-establish attraction.

This is a major project.
Get out of the house. Find an exciting, interesting hobby that doesn't involve her. Moto-cross? Indoor rock climbing? Even bowling or the basketball tournament league at the Y. Just start having fun without her.

Get in shape. Lose the gut. Upgrade your clothes. Tell your barber you need a new look. Something hot, but age appropriate. Trust him.

Make decisions. Stick to them. Pass shit tests.

OneTouchHowMuch · 2014-12-06T21:49:08+00:00

Why are you with this person? I'm not implying you should leave yet, just asking what value you see being with this person?

rockmasterflex · 2014-12-06T21:04:54+00:00

I have literally never had duty sex before. You should know how to turn your woman on and make her want you.

If you can't do this, why are you with her? Does she have libido issues?

Title	How do you turn Duty Sex into fun sex?
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Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	December 6, 2014 7:50 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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