So Tinder, Okcupid and apps like that are perfect for me. It's a long story why, but it doesn't matter for this and in general, because i always use it to get laid and it works flawlessly.

I pulled many numbers and always at least kiss-close when dating.

One plate invited me right away to her home, we chatted, drank wine and fucked like rabbits. I like her, because she is fun and kinky. We met up 3 or 4 times more to fuck. During the hole time we stayed in touch via text, always initiated by her.

So I don't want to lose this plate, because, as I said, she is really fun and knows how to fuck - but the contact ceased.

After one week of not hearing from her I wrote her something and we talked a bit, because I wanted a dinner I won in a bet with her. She was occupied with her bachelor-thesis in university. I told her that it's ok, but i won't forget it and visited her sometime to demand it so she better let me know when she is done.

She replied she also won't forget it and we talked some more, but nothing special.

So now there's another week with no contact, and I'm beginning to think that this was it. Maybe she fucks another guy (I fuck other girls too), or she really is occupied.

So my question really is, should I text her / call her again and demand my dinner or should i wait and let this take care of itself?

She is a great plate. Don't want to mess that up.

I never did the plate-spinning before so it's all new to me.

Would appreciate your input.