Girl wants to hang out, but doesn't want to meet halfway.

Mr_Reardon · 2014-07-22T17:23:56+00:00

Agree with her. "You're right, it is. Text me the next time you're in my city and we'll see what my schedule looks like."

[deleted] · 2014-07-22T18:19:37+00:00

Mr_Reardon's advice is exactly what you should do. A girl wants to see me, but she won't see me half way either, although in my case half way would be a 5 hour drive.

captainbloodd · 2014-07-22T18:18:50+00:00

Means she's not into you. If you gave her the tingles she'd move heaven and earth to spend time with you.

[deleted] · 2014-07-22T21:24:55+00:00

If this is your first time meeting up with someone, I would put forth absolutely minimum effort.

kingofpoplives · 2014-07-22T20:52:11+00:00

Hold firm. Tell her it's only fair that you meet half way. This is a shit test.

RedPillington · 2014-07-23T11:57:17+00:00

i don't view this as conclusively unfavorable as everyone else. she might not want to meet you halfway because she wants to fuck and that makes logistics difficult. i agree that you shouldn't go there unless she gives you a good reason.

i think the best thing to do would be to tell her to come over to your place and you'll make dinner and you guys can watch a movie after. that way, you're offering her a reason for her to come that also has clear subtext of intent to fuck but provides her with plausible deniability.

[deleted] · 2014-08-04T18:06:13+00:00

It's a test. It's a test to determine the tone of the relationship going forward. Give in and you know what's coming ahead.

Who do you want to be in control of the relationship?

Title	Girl wants to hang out, but doesn't want to meet halfway.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	11
Comments	14
Date	July 22, 2014 5:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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