LTR and her female friend are having dinner/drinks with male mutual friend of theirs. I always thought this guy was kinda her gay best friend, but he's not actually gay. Anyway we're all good dinner/drinks was fine. Dude keeps joking how this is a double date, me w my girl and him with fugy. I think in my head I'd never joke about being with a fugly girl, not something I'd ever want to imply.

Then we go to leave and as we're walking out I'm putting on my helmet he's behind me and jokes "you know if this was a real double date, I'd be with your girl and you'd be with fugy". My Ltr kinda gives me this look like please don't say anything. It's important to note that this guy is about half my size extremely effeminate and speaks with a lisp. There is absolutely nothing to worry about except that I felt he disrespected me.

I completely ignore hop onto my Ducati and ride away alone as it's too dangerous to have passengers on the Ducati. While he drives my LTR back to my house and I fuck her properly. End of night.

This morning I ask her if he says shit like that all the time, she says no and I say that's it's weird, but whatever not a big deal. Guy wasn't even on my radar until yesterday. LTR and him were in the same school program for the past year, but are no longer in school.

How do I handle this guy in the future? I feel like I somewhat maintained frame, but did not say anything in return which I think I should have.