We are both 23. Long story short, after 3 years I got close with her parents. They treated me like a son when I was homesick and wanted me to marry their daughter. I had a text conversation with her mom because I thought about her food, and she genuinely was happy to hear from me etc.

2 days after I got a message from my ex (I blocked her on everything so idk how she managed to message me) saying: "stop texting my mom - they don't want anything to do with you just like your family doesn't want anything to do with a whore like me" In my opinion she's ashamed that my whole family knows she cheated and swung to the other guy like a monkey. She went on to telling me the reason we broke up was because I couldn't separate family and gf. She had given me an ultimatum, and I didn't feel like I should have to give up my family for her. They all hated her and I was put in the middle for a long time so I had to make a decision and I chose family over her.

Basically I don't know if she was really telling me to fuck off and stay away. Or if she is hurting and is just trying to get a reaction out of me because she knows how to push my buttons? It pissed me off because she kept in touch with her ex's mom the whole 3 years we were together and I didn't bother arguing back because she contradicts herself. She's with this other guy and seemingly carrying on baggage in her new relationship. Any thoughts?