So, last evening I went to a concert with a buddy and was having a good time. I had little intention of picking up a girl since I had plans to text a plate after the show and ask her to come over.

Anyways, this real cutie (solid 8) is in front of me and she looks at me couple times and we make good eye contact. I also deduce (correctly) that she is a 'third wheel', i.e., she is with friends who are a couple and is feeling a bit left out.

I also dance and can always feel when a girl wants to dance. So, I ask her if she wants to dance. She kinda hesitates so I offer my hand and usually no one refuses at that point.

She immediately says something to the effect of "I'm not looking to be picked up". Whatever. I really didn't care since I already had plans to bang a different chick and so was aloof and said that all I wanted to do was dance with her.

Anyways, we dance for a bit and she gets nice and comfortable with me. She closes in and starts to nestle her ass in my crotch area (almost grinding, but not quite). I try to kiss her and she backs off saying it's too early...so I back off and kiss her on the cheek and then on the neck. This turns her on and she then turns around and makes a pouty face so I kiss her square on the lips and we liplock with some tonque action for 30 seconds or so.

I then slip my hands into her jacket pockets and rub her belly for a bit. She takes my hand and brings them to her tits and I don't really start rubbing her tits but kinda/sorta cop a feel. She tells me she's wearing a new $75 bra which looks real nice. I ask her if I can see it and she says she'll show me later. At this point, I'm fairly certain that she wants to fuck and so I start thinking that maybe I should make a real move and bang this chick instead (in any case this chick was way hotter than the chick I intended to bang).

Anyways, a few minutes later she gives me some money and asks me to bring her a beer. I smell that this is a shit test and refuse politely. I ask her what's in it for me but she just looks annoyed and goes up to the bar and doesn't return. Whatever, I think.

Anyways, I had to go to the bar a while later to get drinks for me and my buddy and while getting back, I see her. So I go and talk to her and ask her if she was okay and if she wanted to come back to my place. She busts out some story of how she broke up only 5 days back and that it was too soon and what-not. I tried rationalizing with her (my mistake, I guess) saying I didn't want anything really other than wanting to fuck her. She seemed hesitant and so I asked if she wanted to hang out some other time. She said, yeah, give me your number. I don't fall for that BS and so said no. She then asked me for my Facebook and I said no to that as well. So, she was like, "You only want to fuck?". I said, yes and that seemed to turn her off a bit.

What did I do wrong? I felt that the iron was hot and wanted to strike so didn't make it seem like I wanted anything more than casual sex (although, in hindsight, she would've been a great plate). Was I being too aggressive? Did I inadvertently fail the decency test by being a dick by refusing when she asked me to get her a drink (she was willing to pay for it)? Or was it a form of LMR that I didn't overcome properly?

Any advice or insight is welcome.