I've been seeing a lot of posts and comments with questions like "What if I'm just not cut out to be TRP?" "Maybe it's not in my nature to be alpha" etc recently and I've got to tell you, if you're asking those questions you're probably not.

These are excuses, these are you telling yourself it's okay to fail because it wasn't really your fault, it's all beyond your control. If you're asking these questions hoping that someone will agree with that, hold your hand and tell you that it's okay at least you tried, then you're definitely in the wrong sub. The red pill isn't aspirin, the red pill isn't ecstasy. You won't see the effects in a few hours, a few weeks not even a few months. To transform from a complete beta to the man you want to be will be hard, it will be tiring and it will require conscious effort all of the time. There will be times when you slip up, there will be times you get rejected and there will be times when you think it's just easier to resign and live a life of mediocrity. There is no easy when it comes to TRP, so if you're looking for an easy way to become more alpha, or slay more poon or become more interesting etc etc, it's not here. Men aren't made through comfortable living, they're made through battle, trials of emotional and physical strength, hardship, suffering and pain. A man will face these challenges regardless of how many times he may fail, a boy will curl up and hope someone does it for him. All men fail, but only boys concede.

This same message has been posted here hundreds of times for two reasons, one is that it's true. The only way to achieve what you want is through hard work and continuing to strive for excellence regardless of how many times you fail. And the other is that people have always looked for the easy way out. But guys there never has been one, if there was an easy way then the world would be full of Alpha males. This isn't grade school basketball, you're not going to get a trophy for participating, you won't get any rewards if you're not willing to put in the work.

TL;DR - Trying to shortcut your learning again? Go read that thing it's not even long.

Edit: If you want advice on how to change then just remember happiness isn't easy, keep going to the gym, reading, studying/working hard, approaching women, working on appearance and so on and so forth. The answer will always be the same, if it's not working you just need to slightly change tactics and up your effort.