Been one year since the marriage and I didnt think it was worth telling all aspects of my past. Well, she decided to snoop into my mailbox behind my back and found an old email of an ex-plate talking about an abortion.

She was super-upset and called me at my work. I told her to keep the phone down and we will talk about it when I am home.

Planned approach : Casual, Non Reactive. I am also upset that she is snooping in my mailbox.

How do you think I should approach this?