”I am continually impressed, horrified, and saddened by the manipulative mastery of some women, and the extent to which men let that rule their lives.”-Amy Larson (Female Blogger)

What is worse than a Shit Test?

A few years ago, before I came to Red Pill. There was a girl. There’s always a fucking girl in these stories. And fellas, she was THE ONE. She was a HB4 maybe but before this I had come out of a Christian marriage and she was the second girl I had ever boned, and she gave me hot blowjobs, and I just could not see any imperfection in this perfect snowflake of mine and knew we were going to be together forever. Well you all know how it goes. She was BPD and banging at least one other dude on the side and when I found out I was devastated and butthurt and found TRP on Reddit and the rest is history. You can look at my old posts to learn more about where I am these days but in case you think I am some pasty faced college kid trying to give you advice, trust me I am the real MRP deal (LIFTING, the Captain, and well versed on all sidebar material and then some) and able to help you if you will hear me out. So this girl taught me something about women that I think most of us need reminding about. She taught me that women will shit test, yes, but there is something far worse that they do that can have dramatic and devastating effects on our lives. They can use mind control on you.

Now I don’t mean they take over your thoughts, but they have the power, if you let them, to subvert your will with their own. This girl from my past was very very good at that. She would tell me how she couldn’t wait for me to come over that night for hot amazing sex. She would tell me in great detail how horny she was and how dripping wet she was for me, but I would get there and she would be distant and quiet and just wanted to watch television. I would do what all Beta Billys do and beg her, yes BEG her, to tell me what was wrong. Turns out she didn’t have enough money for her seven year old’s new school wardrobe. She lamented that she was a shitty terrible mom who couldn’t provide and now her daughter was going to have to start the school year wearing goodwill. Well hell, that was an easy problem to fix, here’s a couple hundred of my hard earned money, problem solved. She was happy, I got a sloppy BJ and all was well until the next thing she wanted. Women do this shit ALL. THE. TIME. And we just let them. We either fall for it or we are too damn tired to push back so we just go along with it. This truth is going to complicate things for some of you, but the more advanced of you will appreciate this perspective. Do not just try and identify Shit Tests and Comfort Tests. Identify her subtle attempts at mind control.

Mind Control…Really?

Yes.

Now a more specific term might be Will Subversion but it is really all the same thing. Through crafty emotional manipulation she pulls you completely into her frame and gets your compliance with her will. This could be for something as simple as a household chore, or a trip to see her family you don’t want to do, or a major financial decision or something with the kids. The variations of this technique are as varied as the female capacity for manipulation, but there is a pattern and a way to recognize this technique for the wary. Essentially, at the end of the “test” she is giving you or display of negative emotions, ask yourself this very simple question:

Is she wanting something specific from you?

If the answer is yes, there is a good chance her little display of female hysteria was really a well thought out attempt to get your compliance with something she wanted. Don’t feel bad telling her no. If she wants something from you that she knows you are reluctant to give, she should approach you with respect and provide logical reasons why she would like said thing from you.

Final Note

Do not ever think giving a woman what she wants will create attraction. It can in some cases create COMFORT, but it does not create attraction. When my ex gave me my sloppy BJ reward it was not because my Beta Provider acquiescence to her will made me more sexually attractive to her. She gave me my reward like a prostitute provides her services for a fee. She wanted me to continue to provide for her and her daughter, which I did until I found out about the cheating and came to The Red Pill. Now your wife or LTR may not be using mind control on you for something so base as cash, but many of you are being controlled and are living a life where your own free will is subverted by a woman that can't even run her own life properly. I HATE when I see men refer to their wife as the "boss". Grow a pair, bro.

TLDR: Mind Control is a real thing...also, LIFT!