TL;DR a little perspective on divorce/separation/death. don't think you worth alot for a female.

males and females have different perspectives about the loss of their partner. lets start with females;

when females lose their partner (separation/divorce/death) their primitive brain triggers a mental, psychological state like of "a captive, a prisoner of war".

what does this suppose to mean?

since the beginning of the human kind, after wars, females are treated like prisoners of war or pillage and plunder material. they didnt get executed or killed. instead females mostly got raped or taken as "handmaidens/odalisques/sex slaves" by the members of the victorious armies/tribes/nations. we can see many examples of this in the history.

The psychology which helps most in these kind of hard to survive situations is psychological state of a prisoner of war. that simply means the females who adopts/ebraces/obeys their new master have a high chance of survivabilty not the ones that are obstructive or still 100% commited to their old husband/mate/master. obstructive and "still commited" ones probably gets executed by the new master. So, this psychological trait is probably carried from generation to generation (stockholm syndrome is seen mostly in females).

thats why a female adapts new situations/mates/husbands very quickly. so now face the reality if you somehow die she wont be mourning forever like in the movies. probably she will find a new master (if she can) and gonna start banging him like there is no tomorrow until he becomes another worthless beta junk. if she somehow divorces you, dont think she will suffer more than a week. maybe she can suffer but the reason wont be losing you (the reason will probably be money). if you have become enough beta more than she can handle, dont think she will suffer while cheating on you with her new master (aka alpha).

simply its all about insticts fellows. maybe we are not in war in our sweet homes, but there is still a war going on. the war on the business life, the war on the social life/social skills, the war on your "game". if you lose these wars or she sees you as a loser, she wont have hard time to adapt the new master (aka alpha). there are no morals on the female instinct. go out there and be a better man everyday not to lose your wars