So i got lambasted over at askTRP for this because apparently I didn't specify that i knew this is all beta bullshit?

So to confirm, I pulled this quote off of another sub and it has a lot of bluepill mentality, I am aware of that, some of these things are Crucifixion from red pill mentality. But i am not going to edit something I'm quoting because red pill hates it?

What is the redpill version of this?

Excellent post. I recently got engaged and here are some of the things that I asked myself before I proposed

  • Do I really, really, deep down want to spend every day of the rest of my life with this particular person.
  • Do I trust this person 100% with my secrets, my finances, my life.
  • Can I talk about absolutely anything with this person and how do they react?
  • What do I really not like about this person, what could I change if I really wanted too?
  • Do we share the same ideas on what we see in the future?
  • Do we both want kids?
  • When I have spent a long period of time with this person and they drive away, do I want to chase after their car and jump in the passenger seat OR am I glad to now finally have time on my own to be "myself"?
  • What is this person like when we disagree on things?
  • Has this person ever abused me (verbally, emotionally, physically) or someone I care about?
  • How does this person treat the waiter / waitress when we go to a restaurant?
  • How often do we have sex and is sex really enjoyable?
  • What happens after sex? Do we both head for the shower or do we still hug when everything is wet and uncomfortable?
  • How do I get along with this persons family? Does this person get along with my family? If not, why?
  • Does this person tell me if something is bothering them or do they let it bottle up?
  • Can I tell this person if something is wrong without feeling anxious or do I let it bottle up?
  • If this person was in a car accident tomorrow and was confined to a wheelchair for the rest of their life would that change anything about the way I thought of them?
  • How much money do I have? How much money does this person have?
  • Can I count on this person to always be there for me and to support me in everything that I do? *Am I personally ready for marriage? Is there anything that I haven't yet done that I really want to do that I can't do with this person in my life permanently?
  • Does this person accept me despite all of my insecurities, all of my faults and all of the bad things about me?
  • Does this person ever try to change who I am or even hint at it?
  • Has this person seen me at my absolute worst or only when I'm at my best?
  • Does this person offer me everything I have ever wanted from a partner?
  • Have I discussed marriage with this person or will I look like an idiot when I propose?
  • Have I asked this person's parent for permission to marry them? Is this something that is important to them?