I don't learn very well with the passive reading of information, so I'm going to air my incompletely formed red pill theory here from time to time to help me process the information and get other people's interpretation. I need to explore corner cases to really get a better idea for how anything works.

My wife and I were a little abnormal in the fact that I wanted kids, three would be ideal, and my wife did not. It was not something we discussed in detail before getting married. Nearly everyone in her family has at least two kids, her mom was the first of 7, her dad was the second of 8. She only has one brother, and is over 15 years older than him, so she was effectively an only child.

Eight years into our marriage, when I'm finally out of the navy and done with my undergrad, we decide it's time to start popping them out. She had a shitty pregnancy. Morning sickness 24/7 for all 9 months. She decided we were only having one.

For years I was trying to talk her into another one, and at times she almost seemed receptive to the idea. I negotiated, pleaded, did all the things you'd expect a habitual blue pill popper to do.

Now I'm convinced that the issue was I was really going about it wrong. She doesn't want a man who begs her to have his child, she wants a man who's going to fuck her until her head spins and put a baby in her. That's the kind of man who's going to keep her and her child safe from predators.

But the question is, when the time comes, how do I get her off the pill? I'm thinking the best approach is simply to say, "It's time to stop taking the pill." Thoughts?