I messaged her with what /u/deputydelicious [+3][1] suggested:

"I am not the perfect husband. I will not tolerate your disrespect. I am not your pet. If you don't trust that I love you and won't cheat on you then there is no point in you being with me. You have broken my trust by reading my private diary, and you crossed a line when you insulted my with a quote from my personal space. You used to say it was a mistake to marry into a beggar family like mine. I agree. Go and get married to a perfect rich man your father finds. You'll be happier."

She has replied with below:

"Ok don't be so afraid after knowing what I read [talking about my journal entry]. Your true color has been exposed. You don't tell me how I need to be happy. Go ahead with your disgusting behavior for which you cannot give explanation but justify saying that it is coded in your gene :) meaning you will continue like that knowing that your partner is getting hurt by your behavior.

Last line you said you should have told before marrying me. If you have any self respect/dignity, save some of it.

You have crossed your limit and insulted me long back and I have suffered for a year. Enough for me. A person like you who hurts your partner's expectations should never expect anything from the partner to match his expectations. Asshole.

Go and fuck someone else's ass you will be happier

I know that you love and you wont cheat me. But I am not talking about that, and you also know that :)

I also love you and wont cheat on you but I will show you what you have done and let's see how good it's going to feel for you.

Just because you love me and won't cheat on me, you can't say that you will keep on looking at someone else's ass and that if I ask you not to be like that you can't. That I'm expecting it is treating you as my pet.

If you have this kind of feeling you bastard you should have said before the marriage when I told you I don't like certain things like this.

You have crossed that promise you made me and insulted me long back.

So you have no rights to talk about trust.

If you have been true and told me when I asked you before marriage and said that if I'm expecting things like that then it's like treating you as my pet, then I wouldn't have married a womanizer like you.

I would have married a non-womanizing, non-beggar family person.

Bastard. You have never ever shown like you needed a personal space so far. I never had any personal space and I shared everything with you. If you need a personal space, then it means you are note comfortable with me. I read your diary thinking that you are mine. But what you have mentioned above is making me feel like you are someone else to me.

Ok, then I will also have a private space going forward, and I don't want you to ask me why I didn't say about certain things to you in future."

I don't know what to feel. I realize that some of you feel that I'm a troll, but I'm really a fucked up guy tired of being nice, and trying to get some control in life.